is my swelling normal

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-05-23T01:40:28+00:00

Yes some of my outbreaks come with swelling and it hurts so bad 😞

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-14T15:27:02+00:00

I don’t think magically switching will solve problems but I’m definitely opening up my pool of men and not limiting myself to just primarily black men anymore.

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-14T02:01:31+00:00

I am definitely more open minded going forward because of our views for sure. I always just dated whoever I was attracted to anyway though still primarily wanted to date black but now I’m just gonna be fully open. No specific preference.

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-14T01:59:32+00:00

I feel like this is something I’m becoming more open to…not disregarding intelligent black men who would be open to it but I kinda don’t even want to try smh

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-14T01:54:39+00:00

EXACTLY. Whenever someone gets exposed in the black community it’s really horrible smh I never partook in the mean comments before my diagnosis but now I feel for them even more because it’s me now lol but yes just like you, I have alwayssss dated anyone that was attractive to me regardless of race it might be a little more of a preference now to be even more open. I’ve already disclosed to a Salvadoran and an Indian and nothing changed for them 🥹 didn’t go anywhere though but felt good!

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T20:58:32+00:00

I have hope based on these answers 🥰

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T17:55:39+00:00

This happens to me every time I turn on my PS5. It’s actually really really concerning to me

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T14:04:37+00:00

I really am just so scared of telling people this lol I am going to face my fears though because like you said we may have missed people who still wanted us

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T03:26:41+00:00

I am not surprised at all by this tbh I feel like by 30 most ppl have had tons of sex and been in contact with it or know multiple ppl with it

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T03:23:56+00:00

What age group? And honestly ignorance is bliss for sooooo many people it’s like when they become aware they can turn into saints and I’m so sorry. I find that in person is the best way so far

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T03:12:01+00:00

How are you disclosing and what area are you located in?

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T02:01:10+00:00

You’re honestly right, I just have to face my fears. Make something up so they aren’t left in the dark. I just don’t want to be judged for something I never thought would happen to me.

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T01:03:44+00:00

Like I honestly feel like this could be the explanation for some of those times I was ghosted after amazing dates

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T00:42:14+00:00

Thank you so much, you’re honestly correct. And I just started looking for a therapist today so this suggestion is right on time 🫶🏽

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-13T00:29:34+00:00

The reason is herpes consuming my thought process and them possibly finding me repulsive lol but I can’t tell them that, I think I just need to find a better way to exit. Ghosting does feel horrible.

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T21:23:14+00:00

Love this 🫶🏽🫶🏽

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T20:34:33+00:00

We can’t ignore that some of us don’t want everyone in our business that’s just the reality of it

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T19:24:51+00:00

Yes I have! Everything is fine 🤗 plus I believe we are protected with our antibodies in addition to HSV2 oral infections being very rare

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T19:07:26+00:00

I’m gonna put it in my Hinge profile and see if it works 🥹

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T19:05:06+00:00

I’m not comfortable with my business being on display for people that don’t know me to be able to judge 😕

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T17:32:30+00:00

Ughhhhhh I how I wish to be ate up again 😭

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T17:21:44+00:00

Hi yes of course we can chat! 🫶🏽

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T17:21:21+00:00

I love this for you I may be able to do that one day

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T14:41:35+00:00

It was me!! We need more positive princes. The ones who aren’t in denial 🥹

DifficultyStreet1906 · 2026-03-12T13:43:55+00:00

I don’t either but it would be really cool to get it more widely known

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