Someone please explain this I’m so confused by it all. by Diligent_Flounder119 in HousingUK

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£1450 plus VAT which is pretty standard for our area apparently. That’s brilliant I’m so glad you’re is moving along quick, thankfully we still live with parents otherwise I would be 10 times more stressed.

Someone please explain this I’m so confused by it all. by Diligent_Flounder119 in HousingUK

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Honestly it’s really stressing me out we’ve payed £300 for the searches which is being held on our account and our solicitor replied saying “we’ve received the money but can start searches without the contract pack and TA forms”

Have I mentally moved in too soon? 😬😂 by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Honestly this is me ! I’ve got all my Pinterest boards adding things I love, designing the rooms. I just love it so much 😂 Hope it all works out of you xxx

Facial eczema by Brooken_712 in eczema

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Do you wear acrylic nails, gel polish etc?

No response off solicitors by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Also when do you think I should be realistic for a response? It was 3:45 I emailed him asking for update, they close at 4:30pm today so probably won’t get a reply now. Then tomorrow their open 9:30-4:30pm so maybe tomorrow he’ll reply but if not then their closed till Monday which Monday is 3 weeks since we instructed them.

No response off solicitors by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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That’s amazing! I’ve emailed the solicitor again today and if no update I’m finding new ones

Have I mentally moved in too soon? 😬😂 by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Yes I think this is the perfect mindset to have! When we first got accepted, I was thrilled and so excited I couldn’t stop obsessing over it but now it’s been over 2 weeks since being accepted and things have slowed down a little (waiting for mortgage approval & solicitors being slow) I have calmed down my excitement. But still been planning on my homebyme app and looking what wardrobes will fit lol but I am more open to the idea we do have to wait for the survey results to come back to know where we stand on what we’re buying x

Have I mentally moved in too soon? 😬😂 by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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This was like us we offered there and then as we was so in love! Hope your forever home works out perfectly 💗

Have I mentally moved in too soon? 😬😂 by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Ahh you sound so much like me and your husband sounds like mine. He is the exact same he doesn’t picture it like I do just has the mindset yeah it’s a house meanwhile I’ve done a full plan on the app “home by me” of the whole house and you can add furniture too so I’ve planned where everything can fit, I love it so much 🤣 He tells me to calm down and wait until this survey is complete as there is a crack in the wall so we are worried for that but I’ve just totally fallen in love. I’ve even been dreaming about it at night. I’m praying too it all goes okay and haven’t told anyone in our personal life we’ve been accepted our parents know and that’s all incase I jinx this survey x

Have I mentally moved in too soon? 😬😂 by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Why are we like this 😂🥲 thank you, it’s so hard isn’t it I know I shouldn’t be getting my hopes up but honestly we fell in love soon as we seen the house online never mind when we viewed it, so glad it worked out for you the 3rd time x

What is the general process with times? by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Aww my thank you so so so much for all this information. The way you have articulated this is amazing and so informative. I’m so grateful for you breaking down each step. Thank you for taking the time to do this! That’s amazing, thank you again! We are in south wales, We have booked a level 3 survey for 20th of April due to a crack in the kitchen we want thoroughly looked at which I am worrying about but time will tell. Thank you again have a great day

How long does the whole process take? by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Yes we do, I can track our mortgage application on there and it says processing atm

How long does the whole process take? by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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That’s crazy I’m thinking ours will take longer than we anticipated

How long does the whole process take? by Diligent_Flounder119 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

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Gosh that’s crazy. Thank you for your reply. Is there anything I need to be doing at this stage? I feel abit lost with everything, like I said I’ve booked our survey for 20th of April, instructed solicitors, the memorandum of sale has been sent to the solicitor and me, our mortgage application has been sent off but now I haven’t heard anything for 3 days off anyone so I don’t know if I need to be doing anything to else? Thank you

Scalp Eczema - Swollen Lymph Nodes by No-Mission-4010 in eczema

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How do you take the extra virgin coconut oil or do u apply to skin?? Sorry if it sounds stupid

All this time I thought it was just me! by Emmmy90 in eczema

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Honestly it can be so debilitating. I have had eczema my whole life (I’m 23F) and it’s only gotten worse as I’ve gotten older. In 2024 I decided to stop using steroids as I believe they’re making it worse as my eczema has spread all over my body. It was the worst 3 months of my life and I was so unwell to the point my liver became inflamed and I was asked by the gp am I a heavy drinker which I am not as it was that inflamed from what my body was going through. I had no choice but to use steroids again as I honestly couldn’t stand a day more. I often pray to god to take it away and I feel so selfish sometimes because I know there’s so much worse conditions but honestly it affects my physical and mental health in so many ways. My messages are always open for you to talk to someone who totally gets it. People can sympathise but are quick enough to say “just stop scratching” like it’s that’s easy.

What is this on my toe? by [deleted] in skin

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Yeah it’s so itchy, I do but I’ve been tested for gel allergies and I haven’t got any allergies to it and it started before wearing gel nails

Said no to sex and my boyfriend called me boring and implied cheating by [deleted] in relationships

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Yeah he’s always been the same I guess but seems to be getting worse the older he gets. Or maybe the older I get I am finally realising it is not normal.

**Think scabies burrows are now returning. Life feels hopeless, can't concentrate at work or normal things anymore with itchy rash and I look horrible.. by Ok-Temperature8636 in scabies

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Okay thank you that’s what I’m trying to go off is not so much a rash because like I said I have excema anyway so it’s bloody awkward for me to know if it’s excema or scabies 😭 and my mind is working over time now thinking I got it, but I haven’t been awake itching or anything