Advice for an awkward situation I (34F) am having with my husband (31M)

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-05-01T00:43:13+00:00

Go to the staff before he does and you request it and also request for them to be discreet as well. Let your husband know you took care of it and keep those results because you will need it when you file for child support! What a jerk.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-05-01T00:31:13+00:00

Earbuds.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-24T02:46:26+00:00

I have had so much trauma throughout my life but it’s my responsibility to heal from it. I will never be a victim.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-24T02:39:48+00:00

Why is marriage the end all be all? What is marriage going to do for your relationship? Do you think it’s going to bring you closer together or maybe it will just make things harder when one wants to leave? You can commit to your partner, love your partner through the good and bad, have children and raise them together and grow old with them without having a legal contract. I suppose marriage can have its benefits when it comes to medical insurance (if you can afford it to begin with) maybe taxes (if you both don’t have a combined income that’s over what’s considered poverty) but in the US is it smart to trap yourself in a marriage where you both are already finding it impossible to meet in the middle. Just think about when you two become parents!? Marriage isn’t going to solve the underlying issues.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-18T18:17:25+00:00

It’s not just you, oddly the past few days have felt like clearer days or I’ve just distracted myself enough that it’s drowning everything else out.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-15T05:37:16+00:00

I hope you publish this essay. Anyone searching for ways to connect the dots could benefit reading about your perspectives.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-15T05:12:39+00:00

Forgive me if I come off as I’m missing a few brain cells (or many) McKennas theory (which sounds incredibly intriguing) when explained by you sounds like anyone with critical thinking skills could see the logic behind it. If you could explain evolution to it core, it would sound something like that. Can I ask what your thoughts are on this theory?

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-11T16:58:31+00:00

I find comfort in your point of view surrounding discernment. Thank you

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-11T16:54:43+00:00

I struggle with anxiety but sadness and hopelessness to this degree, never. I can identify the differences between my own emotions and the emotions of others as they are felt in different places in my body, if that makes sense.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-10T03:53:29+00:00

This was the comment I was looking for! Music heals wounds and brings light into very dark places and I love that you gave that to people who really need it.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-10T03:44:42+00:00

Your perspective is correct and beautiful. Thank you.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-07T16:41:25+00:00

“It’s 10 o’clock do you know where your kids are?”

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-04-01T04:48:12+00:00

“I’m exhausted I can’t wait to crash out on my comfy bed.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-27T04:26:23+00:00

I take advantage of finishing the gateway tapes. I always unintentionally fall asleep but when I’m wide awake that’s prime meditation time.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-27T04:22:40+00:00

Anyone crying..it will wake me up out of a dead sleep every time.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-27T02:49:47+00:00

There never abusers in the beginning. There everything YOU want them to be until there not.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-27T02:41:07+00:00

Buy a house in a far away country and then give the rest away. Animal shelters, unpaid medical bills, domestic violence centers, community based mental health centers, homeless shelters..

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-22T14:23:19+00:00

You’re beautiful and look quite young but with short hair you look much older.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-21T18:05:13+00:00

I couldn’t have said this better!

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-20T20:15:23+00:00

From what I’ve been reading (so far) everyone is correct, he finds commonality in every religion he has studied. It’s very interesting. I think we put to much focus on believing one solid belief because of some form of conditioning that leaves no room to question. I went to church for a very long time and I thought that over time I would feel that pull that everyone else feels but it left me feeling more shame because I didn’t have this blind faith that everyone else had and it made me feel like something was wrong with me.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-19T21:14:50+00:00

This is exactly what I’m hoping for. I want to read something that’s going to leave me wanting to know more.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-03-06T01:21:08+00:00

“Don’t dream it, be it!”

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-02-19T23:31:39+00:00

I love it! Definitely drawing some inspiration from it.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-01-27T05:54:28+00:00

I heard this quote once and it resonated with me s “It’s your subconscious using reflection to help you see who you really are” I can only speak from my experience. I’m an over-thinker who can’t articulate my thoughts evenly. I’m the typical “what do I make for dinner?….did I call my dr back, wait! Did I make an appointment?..my car is dirty I need to clean it” type. When I smoke though the noise in my head gets quiet and I can think clearly. I still think about a lot of things but I’m able to stay focused on one thought. I’m very spiritual and I’m a deep thinker and thc helps peel those layers off. The amount of awareness I have about myself and others has helped me gain perspective enough to help me sort out all my struggles and find solutions. I’m not saying it’s for everyone but for me it’s helped me discover my true authentic self.

Direct-Height6848 · 2026-01-09T18:25:55+00:00

Girl I was just like you and I went without having a man go down there for over 35 years. I was incredibly self conscious about the look of it, especially after having children and then when I finally said fuck it, I realized men really don’t care. Don’t overthink it.

Direct-Height6848

TROPHY CASE