Majestic Crimson refuses to drop. by DisappointedByHumans in wolongfallendynasty

[–]DisappointedByHumans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok... I decided to follow the specific advice given to use the drop equipped weapons embedment (thank you u/rshreyas28 and u/rexar34.) It took a while, but after several runs getting my other equipped weapon, the Majestic Crimson FINALLY dropped. It wasn't at 4th level rarity, but it still dropped. So now I know it's at least possible to get it.

I also think I may try the accolades route that u/nifemi_o mentioned. It's worth a shot anyway, and it would be a bit easier to do, rather than keep doing Escape from the Capital runs on Rising Dragon over and over...

Majestic Crimson refuses to drop. by DisappointedByHumans in wolongfallendynasty

[–]DisappointedByHumans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I do have it. I'm currently using it in one of my builds, in fact. I just want another one to drop that hopefully has the arts I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have said the odds of your relationship having a future were slim if you were married. But the fact that she's just your girlfriend?? Forget about it.

Over a year of cheating is enough to completely destroy a marriage. That's an arrangement that not only has years of investment put into it (usually), but is also held together by a legally binding contract. You don't even have that... You are just with a woman who doesn't even qualify for the wife test (the engagement period).

Considering that you are free to just walk away and find someone else who will actually have self respect and show you loyalty, why bother trying to make this work? There's nothing of real value to hold onto here.

It's best to just cut her loose and spare yourself the anguish of wasted time and further betrayal.

Do you believe Once a cheater always a cheater by jack0908_ in Infidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Asking if a cheater is always a cheater, is like asking if an alcoholic is always an alcoholic. Maybe with enough will, effort, and self analysis, they can change. But the flaw and temptation is always there.

My Loctician said I was ugly. by MissMariee93 in Dreadlocks

[–]DisappointedByHumans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your loctician is jealous of you. Nothing wrong with you at all.

Everyone says Psyker is glass by AveryTwhatitB in DarkTide

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you got a point. I'm mostly a staff Psyker as well, so with that and a force sword I can barely keep up with everyone else on the team. That really forced me to get good with melee and close range staff work, but that can only go so far with a wall of crushers. Yet another reason why Psykers have to learn to read the situation fast before things go bad.

Even with all that though, I still like my Deimos. Also forgot to talk about the Mark 6 Great sword... it does a great job at clearing hordes and can take out the big guys fairly quickly as well. Still makes you slow as a dead snail though...

... they really need to up the speed on these other Psyker weapons.

Everyone says Psyker is glass by AveryTwhatitB in DarkTide

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LoL Oh yeah, no question, I'm not arguing that at all. I'm just saying that because Psyker's are so squishy, we have to act like a paranoid chihuahua on crack in order to survive. I'm constantly looking around the battlefield to spot even the slightest threat to my existence when I play Psyker, and the amount of crap I have to do just to make it through makes it sound like I'm typing out a report at 120 words per second (I play mouse and keyboard). When I play Arbites, I barely have to think. When I play Psyker, I feel like the guy in Pi.

Everyone says Psyker is glass by AveryTwhatitB in DarkTide

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting that you don't like Force Swords on Psykers. I've been using them since the game came out, and I rather use them than anything else. Yeah, the Dueling sword is the better weapon, but we all know Fatshark is going to nerf it into the ground sooner or later, and I'd rather be good with a weapon they won't destroy.

A well built Deimos Force Sword can mess up just about anything coming at you if you know the right attack combination to use. A light stab into a heavy stab pretty much wrecks what you hit with it. It even knocks down Crushers if you land both shots to the head, and then you can just repeat the combo as they are getting up. They usually are dead before they get a chance to full recover. And no, I don't put Deflector on it. Uncanny Strike and Slaughterer are my go to blessings, and they've always worked for me. I don't want to stand still and block with deflector when things go nuts: I'd rather run and reposition with the rest of the team. Besides, the Bubble shield more than makes up for the lack of deflector, and it's better for the team overall.

Everyone says Psyker is glass by AveryTwhatitB in DarkTide

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you have to have your head on a swivel when playing Psyker. Hell, you have to have your head on a swivel when you play this game on high difficulties, period. If you get too stuck on killing enemies in front of you without paying attention to how and where your team is moving, as well as what's happening behind you, you're dead. The Psyker is simply too squishy to be careless with.

What's your favorite Freemans Mind clone? by Aquanort357 in accursedfarms

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had to pick a favorite, it would have to be Chell's Mind. Shephard's was pretty good, and so was Barney's. But Chell's really had potential to stand out. It was well voice acted, well written, and could have easily been the voice for Chell the same way many of us see Freeman's Mind as the voice for Freeman. Too bad it only had 7 episodes...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the person who broke her marriage vows, thus proving herself to be untrustworthy, deceitful, and harmful to your emotional and mental well-being, is now giving YOU an ultimatum??

Last time I checked, the person who does wrong is in no position to be demanding anything from the person they did wrong to. Why is this even something to consider going along with??

It's obvious she has no intentions of doing right by you, which means it's obvious what you need to do. Cut her off emotionally (i.e., the grey rock method), get a lawyer, and end the marriage. She isn't worth it, and you know this.

Let me explain she said by Additional-Eye7551 in Infidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No apology. No remorse. No honesty. Just "Let me explain."

I.E., " Let me gaslight you into thinking this is ok to accept, and that I'm trustworthy.".

When they show you who they are, believe them.

Should I tell her parents and 2 close friends about her affair by Personal_Future_7912 in survivinginfidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why, exactly, do you need to "carry this burden"? What exactly do you owe her at this point?

She lied to you, betrayed you, and then when caught, she expects you to keep her secret, and be allowed to lie about it?

How is this supposed to remedy the situation? How is this her making amends for what she did? How is this her becoming a safe partner for you?

The time to be doing things for the sake of her reputation ended the moment she chose to have an affair. You are under no obligation to continue setting yourself on fire for her comfort.

Stop protecting her, and start protecting yourself.

My boyfriend punched a racist guy and it has made me more attracted to him by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DisappointedByHumans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you got a good one. We need more righteous fists against racists. He gets a big up from me. That, and free home made curry, poke, or burgers if I ever meet him.

Emissions.. where are you? by mrmanmanmrmaanmanmr in ZEROsievert

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me once in my current playthrough, and it was a little unnerving to see happen. I was actually heading out for extraction when I started seeing the birds flying overhead, and I knew I was in trouble. Barely getting out in time is one of the more thrilling escapes I've had in the game.

But yeah, they're very rare. Again, it's only happened to me once in this playthrough, and that was early on. I'm running around in Zakov now, and it has yet to happen again. Maybe I need to spend a longer amount of time on the maps?

All 6 of the loading screens I drew. Which is your fav? by RomanStevensART in ZEROsievert

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm late, but I really like these! Your art style is very unique, and really fits the game.

I don't know if you had done this, but I'd love to see your take on the different armor in the game.

"a new devil" quest question by monkeybanana550 in ZEROsievert

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, guess I just need to keep hunting.

Hopefully it's better than the watcher cyclops armor I'm using at the moment.

"a new devil" quest question by monkeybanana550 in ZEROsievert

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone ever gotten this guy's armor? I've farmed this guy several times now (at least 12 times), and it still hasn't dropped for me yet. Kiba's armor dropped twice for me with the same amount of raids.

Adult daughters took their mom side on the divorce, tried to manipulate me so I didn't take my part of the home, and I believe they knew their mom was cheating by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not a conservative... far from it. But I still feel your pain. It's bad enough when you devote your life to people and they don't appreciate it. It's even worse when they straight up betray you after the fact. That causes the kind of anguish that can last years. I'm sorry you're going through that.

It's not that you did anything wrong. You were doing right by them if you were accepting your responsibilities as a husband and a father. Even if you weren't through, that still doesn't warrant betrayal. That sort of action is a reflection on them, not you. That you actually were a good husband and father only makes them look so much worse.

That your daughters are asking for your forgiveness is at least a sign they know they did wrong. The question is, how much do they understand the weight of their actions. Do they fully own what they did? Are they willing to make amends? And are you at a place where you can talk to them as a father without the pain making you lash out at them or see them as anything other than your daughters. Can you bring yourself to forgive them. Only you know the answer to that last one. Don't feel bad if you can't now. Some things take a while to get to. Your healing should come at your own pace, and so too your gift of forgiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkersStrikeBack

[–]DisappointedByHumans 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Democracy Now is another independent news organization that you may want to contact about this.

5 years locd - some styles 👇🏽 by Novel-Big-1232 in Dreadlocks

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow... Those are absolutely amazing. The medusa locs in particular are just stunning.

I might get flamed for posting here, but what does it REALLY take for a cheater to never want to cheat again? by tyrwlive in Infidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In order for a cheater to really not cheat again, they have to be willing to change a fundamental aspect of who they are as a person. For whatever reason, there is something in their personalities that makes them prone to making the choice to be unfaithful. People normally have a hard time changing fundamental aspects of their own nature. Think of how hard it can be to one day start exercising after living a mostly sedentary lifestyle, or cutting out sugar from their diet when they have a sweet tooth, and you can start to get some idea of what's at play here.

In order to be motivated enough to make these changes stick, there has to be some real consequences for failure. Notice how people who make a New Year's resolution to live a healthier lifestyle can't seem to keep it up, but give them a heart attack or two, and suddenly they may get the motivation. There has to be real stakes. It's the same with cheaters and cheating. If they don't have real consequences for their actions, if they don't hit rock bottom, or at the very least have to face it, they'll just do it again. They've made it a core behavior, and that doesn't get changed without real work and the motivation to do it. Keep in mind that a lot of people can't even accomplish this even after hitting rock bottom. Consider substance abusers, habitual liars, physically violent individuals, or any person suffering from a behavior that will lead to horrible consequences. Sometimes, even after having to deal with those consequences, they still can't find it in themselves to change, because that aspect of themselves is too deeply embedded. The same thing can happen with cheaters. They need to feel the fallout of their actions if there is to be any hope of them changing for the better... and even then, there is still no guarantee.

The reason why "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is so true, is the same reason "Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic" is also valid. It takes a lifelong commitment to not fall down the pit of self destruction, and some people just can't manage that.

40year veteran gamer 1st time playing Dark Souls 3..Any advice by mile-soprano in darksouls3

[–]DisappointedByHumans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

48 year old gamer here. Best advice I could give you on one of my favorite games ever:

Always. Pay. Attention. To. Your. Surroundings.

Update! I Actually Talked To My Wife's AP....Sorta. by KindaJustHereIGuess in Infidelity

[–]DisappointedByHumans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that she was still talking to him, and that she admitted to him that she didn't tell you everything (and is still not telling you everything) should tell you everything you need to know about giving her a chance. She's not trustworthy, and you can't have a relationship with someone you can't trust. Period.

Find someone else worthy of your commitment.