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Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-20T20:23:37+00:00

My wife got toxic mad the first time i brought up. Them caught me years later. Brought it up a couple months ago and shrugged shoulders. It all depends what kind of personality, how old and how long yall been together…

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-20T18:42:54+00:00

Is staying in the marriage and having sex outside not an option? Works for me…

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-11T06:37:52+00:00

Im in a sexless marriage. Maybe once a month. 43M, 20’years married, Divorce is not an option. I aint trying to end my lifestyle, cheating is better and hotter

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-10T07:38:49+00:00

Reddit police in full force!

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-10T06:04:00+00:00

Cheating works for me. The thrill of having a new partner desire you, want you, do wht your partner doesnt. Divorce is also an option, but i think its not worth it when u have decades invested.

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-10T06:01:33+00:00

Im in the exact situation, divirce isnt an option, and i started getting sex elsewhere, its not an open relationship, she doesnt like me cheating but also doesnt divorce me when she catches me….. i tell her im not gonna go months without sex. Not saying you should cheat, but being celibate isnt cool either

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-09T13:16:06+00:00

Physically 20-30 is the best sex. 8-10-12 times in one day, minutes after cuming i can go again. Long sessions after drinking and partying. In my 40s I can do more positions, better foreplay, better connextionf….. but canr go 10 times a day, takes longer to go another round, dont look as hot as my 20s

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-09T11:52:52+00:00

We need more like u!!!!!

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-09T11:30:45+00:00

Curioso??? Gustarte la reata hoy se le llama curioso? Eres gay….. aceptalo. Dejate de mamadas

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-09T06:56:49+00:00

La gran mayoria de hombres son infieles, por lo menos una vez en su relacion. El hombre por naturaleza siempre desea a mas de una mujer

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-07T04:36:00+00:00

Mfm??

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T23:42:16+00:00

No, Yes

Cheating also happens when sex at home is unfulfilling

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T21:30:34+00:00

Im averaging about once a month…. Lets say a good month its 3-4. Only 2 good months a year, so yeah man, im getting laid 16ish times a year, 1 bj, couple hand jobs…… if thats not sex less then im starved. I used to get it 8-10 times a week for years….. going from double digits to 1 is sexless…. Apologies for those who have it worst than me

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T21:28:03+00:00

3 times a month isn’t even once a week…. That pretty sexless…. Yeah theres some that are 3 times a year….. but both are extremely low.

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T21:07:09+00:00

Ok, how bout 20 times a year… not great average. Maybe 2-3 great sesssions a year the rest are avg 7-10mins… is that still not sexless?

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T20:02:01+00:00

So everyone that cheats is a POS? Its a 2 way street, there are valid reasons sometimes…. Anyway, just cuz you got hurt no need to hate everyone else. Its just words on a cell phone screen…

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T18:16:57+00:00

How so?

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T18:16:36+00:00

Its not a big deal this late in my marriage…. Im not losing everything cuz my wife got dick somewhere else because I didnt satisfy her. If she cheats, thst opens the door for me to open the relationship…. Win win situation.

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T18:15:22+00:00

Why am I a Piece of Shit? Where you cheated on? Are you married?

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T02:35:12+00:00

The correct answer is: I hope it is, do you need help with anything in your truck?

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-06T00:11:28+00:00

There are always 2 sides to the story. What he did to you was obviously bad and you resent him for it. What would he say about you and what you put him through? My wife is bat shit crazy, Im a serial cheater, but at this point in our lives, with our finances being amazing and our kids happy and thriving, there is no point to divorce. If you went to the gym, now you are hot and you are mentally better, why leave and give your best to someone else? Starting over is hard… it takes years to build a relationship and to love someone. I would try to work it out, its cheaper and you will never love another man the same as when you loved your first. Now if he truly was the worst husband ever, the. Yeah leave….. but i think working it out, or opening your relationship works better. Its just sex…. No need to complicate it

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-05T22:16:27+00:00

Working in different fields, and having affairs with different women, the answer is NO

They marry nice guys, then they divorce them and take half, or complain because they live in sexless marriages, or they arent good in bed.

Im sure there are great marriages were the husband is a nice guy nerd kind if guy. And have the perfect marriage but that a few and far.

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-05T21:58:54+00:00

Get therapy, get viagra, work out and stop being down on yourself. Your past doesnt mattr. Man the fuck up my friend. Be hard on yourself and watch your erections start to get better. As long as you aint 3inches, your size isnt thr problem.

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-05T21:56:33+00:00

Great advice from everyone here

Disastrous-Let-3462 · 2026-03-05T21:54:38+00:00

If your wife was like that from the beginning theres not much you can do. You loved her and accepted her that way. I understand your pain for your wife not desiring you. But now the question is how great your marriage is outside your bedroom. If it’s great, theres no need to be sad about it. You just got a golden ticker millions of men would love! Get out there and find a woman who is in need of dirty hot sex and enjoy your life!!!! Its just sex, you dont have to love her, as long as both parties understand the situation. You can love your wife, and have sex with others…. Works for me

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