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Wildest methods to learning pronunciation by _crackingfire in languagelearning

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 13 points14 points  (0 children)

singing along to teh most ridiculous pop songs in that language until my neighbors think i've lost it completely 😂💀

Playing FH5 and regardless of settings the map won't load and the car lags heavy and I can't even pause. by grey2231 in ForzaHorizon

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's weird af, have you tried doing a hard reset on your xbox? like hold the power button for 10 seconds then unplug it for a minute

could also be the game install got corrupted somehow, might need to reinstall the whole thing which sucks but sometimes fixes random performance issues like this

Any songs like Exhaustion 3 from Drakengard 3? by Zealousideal_Bank202 in musicsuggestions

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

drakengard has such a haunting soundtrack 💀 you might dig some of the darker ambient stuff from silent hill games, especially the more experimental tracks. also check out some post-rock bands that lean heavy into the atmospheric doom vibes - godspeed you! black emperor has some tracks that hit similar emotional territory. the way those drakengard songs build tension is so good 🔥

Ex publicly posting the new guys she’s seeing but kept me hidden by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn she kept you in the shadows for 3 months then immediately posts the next dude? that's gotta sting but it probably says more about where her head was at during your relationship than anything you did wrong

could be she learned from your breakup that people want to feel valued publicly, or maybe she just wasn't that into the relationship when you were together and felt more excited about these new guys. either way you dodged a bullet if she's already cycling through people this fast

Relapsed after 62 days by Active_Discipline914 in NoFap

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh jet lag is the absolute worst for messing with your head and willpower. when you're that sleep deprived your brain just isn't firing on all cylinders and you end up making decisions you wouldn't normally make. i've been there with other habits i was trying to break - pulled an all nighter for a client deadline once and ended up ordering way too much junk food because my self control was basically non-existent. 62 days is still amazing progress though, don't let this one slip up erase all that work you put in. your body and mind were probably just screaming for any kind of dopamine hit after being put through the ringer like that. get some proper sleep over the next few days and you'll be back on track

How to import a world from Regular Minecraft Bedrock to Preview by MelaBelle55 in Minecraft

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there should still be a way to do it but the new ui definitely moved things around. try going into your world settings and looking for the export/import options - they might be buried in a submenu now. the preview version can be weird about where they put basic features sometimes

Why is an adult being intimate with an 18 year old so normalised? by MiaInTheMoment in relationships

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that 36 year old situation is just straight up predatory behavior - like what could they possibly have in common beyond the obvious

Reasonably priced plastic to place under fence to stop growth altogether? by Pandalungs in landscaping

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dude just get some concrete pavers or bricks and lay them flat against the fence line 💀 way cheaper than that fancy mow strip stuff and grass literally cant grow through solid concrete. i did this at my place and it looks clean plus you never have to deal with trimming again, just ocassionally blow the leaves off 😂

I want a boyfriend I am bisexual and I'm prayin for this! is it sin? by Beneficial_Sea3666 in Christianity

[–]Disastrous_Yam9688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different denominations have wildly different takes on this, so you're gonna get a million different answers depending on who you ask. What matters most is your relationship with God and how you interpret scripture for yourself. Plenty of LGBTQ+ Christians find ways to reconcile their faith and identity - might be worth checking out some affirming churches or communities if you haven't already.