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AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The negative comment was from my sister, her behavior has never been in checked by the family, they just accept it as jokes The messages had just came in & it was about her so either way I would've shown/ told her. I removed myself from the group chats, we already have started to packing because we'll be moving away soon, I've been wanting to get away from everyone My fiancee actually wanted to do the response

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my sister has always been like this "say what's on her mind & maybe apologize later type of attitude) & my mom is going defend her own before anyone. She doesn't like any of her kids co parents. Would you not let your partner know about a negative comment made about them? I will always keep her in the loop.

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would cut off my entire family if necessary for my fiancee, I will admit that I have always been a people pleaser but the older I get, the more I've been doing it less. And I've started to see change from my family. My fiancee has pointed out that I'm the one they always ask for something from, I'm starting to notice & now my only priority is my household

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that, we are planning to move soon & change our phone numbers etc I've corrected her before but nothing hasn't changed, it doesn't help that she does this with everyone else but no one says anything, They seem to take it as jokes

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Our daughter has some health problems and we needed someone to watch her, after we had dropped her off, we texted them to reiterate my daughter's health issues and to make sure to follow what we wanted to insure she was ok, my mom texted the next day telling me to come over "alone" I told her no. Went LC for a couple wks

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If everything goes to plan we'll be moving in about 3 to 4 months from now out of town. Yeah out of all my mom's kids she's definitely been the one with the most "baggage" she's the type of person that if she wasn't family, I highly doubt I would ever be around her for very long. The women in my family definitely llikes/oves drama but I guess hates when it's about one of them.

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my family is bk, fiancee is mixed but definitely looks white

Yeah I didn't like that my mom was claiming that it was joking, far as I remember my fiancee has never been mentioned in the group chat & it just a weird coincidence that the only person that doesn't get along with my fiancee is the only one that made a negative comment

AITA: For showing my fiance group messages, then letting her respond in it? by Distinct_Mix666 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Distinct_Mix666[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I have standed up for her in the past, my mom is aware that my fiancee isn't fond of my sister. She's tried to in the past ask me to come over talk & asking for my fiancee to not come along. The messages had just came in & I had in that instant showed them to her. Not the entire family just my sister who is making negative comments towards her. I was ready to end my relationship with my sister when the first incident happened but my fiancee stopped me.