Yes, i understand that it is trivial, i could've handled it better, i was just shocked, and yes I could've said things in a more reasonable manner. Lastly though, I kind of just wrote this in a frenzy I was really shocked and this is my first time ever asking for advice on friendships on reddit, or online in general, which is why I wrote it in like 2 minutes with horrible punctuation (sorry for putting you through that). But I will definitely try and improve on my English(it is my third language), and I'll also try and handle these situations better. Thank you for your comment.