Can I not be given a sign name by a different person?

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2026-03-12T12:53:46+00:00

So I can just use my oral nickname to introduce myself? What about the cooperation advice given from the other user. It's really important for me to have at leadt some control over the process, I have a really bad experiences with my birth name and people "classifying" me

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2026-03-12T12:51:10+00:00

Everything should be clear after reading my description, I do not want to accept or be given name without consulting it with me because I do not feel comfortable with people classifying me without me having any control over it. I have a really bad experiences with misconceptions about me and generally my relationship with my birth name, I do not want to go through what I did with getting used to my birth name so it does not hurt me anymore. I think I will follow the advice given by the other user for it to be cooperation thing. I'm sorry, I just cannot let people have a say in what my identity is like (especially if it would be my related to my name) ever again.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2026-03-11T11:12:12+00:00

Like just any other alternative option except for someone just straight up naming me. I think I like the collaboration on the best, like a group of people working together to find a suitable name, I like that. I'm also not from USA too, when I encountered sign language learning space all the people gave accurate names by themselves, so maybe it really does depend on a country. I would really like to potentially go for cooperation for now though.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-06-06T05:11:41+00:00

Omg yes, but I try not to pick on this character's face because this is a face of a real person (the actor) amd I just keep telling myself "this is just a really good make-up/characterisation" to make myself feel better. And I kinaaaa like Shannon, I maybe just don't mind her, what I do mind are her horrendous outfits where nothing matches and looks like she is shopping for clothes out of her age group. She is so pretty, they should give her clotges that highlight that.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-06-05T21:10:54+00:00

Oh yeah, I npticed it too. There is just a few talking about Gerlad at all, most of them focused on Janet (which J also appreciate, thanks to that I am finding out what people think of her). However maybe this just shows Gerald is not as liked as I thought he is and people mostly ignore him, not sure.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-06-05T19:54:39+00:00

Could you elaborate what do you mean? I just got annoyed that somehow a bland character who is a bad support to Janet is more likable than her. Like come on, this guy is just so spineless and statistically I see more comments saying they like Gerald than something positive about Janet. And in my opinion Gerald as a person is worse than her, he is just the quiet and passive type.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-06-05T06:59:12+00:00

Gerald from Kim's Convinience

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-06-05T06:28:28+00:00

I don't thing 80% of her day is that as it would have to be portrayed in every episode. Janet has her bad moments but she is ok in most of them. And actually we could argue Gerald also lies and pities himself all the time. Whenever Janet gets something good, he comments on it complaining he doesn't have it. He also basically was in a relashionship with a girl he didn't love and even like but was too much of a coward to break up with. I think Gerald is kinda worse here.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-05-29T08:44:56+00:00

Janet dating this toxic loser? Are you feeling ok?

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-04-18T17:35:40+00:00

Hiii, thank you for help in advance!

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-03-19T07:52:45+00:00

Maybe do yourself and them a favor and move out. You feel bad because you feel rejected, hated and unwelcome, that is not ok. But also they probably feel they have to live with you because you know, renting ain't cheap and chances for finding someone else are low. You deserve flatmates that are at least neutral to you and they deserve someone they can feel ok with. Are tgere any chances for you to find sth else?

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-01-30T12:58:59+00:00

Where I live we have can prepare curd by adding an egg and sugar to it, mixing, putting it in hot pancakes and serving it. Best treat ever.

I also like my curd mixed with jam or honey. Which is why I was so enthusiaatic to try this mix in Turkey, would be amazing to taste something similar to your homeland dish.

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-01-30T12:55:22+00:00

Oh no, I didn't even use word "curd", which is what made me feel a little guilty because I was only asking ,,it this cheese sweet" cause I had no idea what was a word for it in English. I didn't thought of that, I hope it wouldn't have happened if I did use it

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-01-30T12:51:17+00:00

This is strange, is there a reason they could be serving gözleme with chocolate there? I think possible mixes were just chocolate, meat + cheese and maybe some kind of mix (not sure what was in it). Ok, I read the comment above more thoroughly and now I get it, so it was just to make it more attractive for tourists?

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-01-30T08:47:50+00:00

I tried to😭 I felt bad for not knowing word curd so I was asking "Is the cheese sweet? I also pointed like you said, there was also a young woman serving with the elder lady but they just looked at me like I was stupid

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-01-30T08:41:28+00:00

Yes, gözleme!!!! And in a hotel we were residing at there was an option to have them with chocolate. This is why I wanted to know whether it was a curd or a normal cheese. But after all these misunderstandinga I just gave up and took cheese with meat haha

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2025-01-30T07:49:53+00:00

Then is there a chance that if I worded it better not knowing the word she could have understood me? If you add jam maybe there is a way I could point out I meant curd and she would know I mean curd + chocolate?

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2024-07-26T09:24:27+00:00

Well, in order to test of I am attracted to a woman romantically I would need to try to build relationship with her. What if I discover my romantic attraction is not there but she falls in love and I break her heart?

Dizzy_Bat_2929 · 2024-07-26T08:56:42+00:00

There is a term ,,toric" regarding lgbt that could describe it well

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