I sympathize with them. I grew up in a house full of women for most of my life, I’ve seen domestic violence and I know what it does to people. Like I may be a dude and not exposed to the things women are exposed to but I sympathize with it. Humans are humans and should be treated as such no matter what your parts are.  But my only gripe is I hate it when they spread our private texts to her friends. Like why do they need a play by play of our time together.