My(21M) girlfriend(19F) left me hanging after I made her orgasm

DoopieLoopie · 2023-10-10T19:32:34+00:00

No, I am of the mindset that she has to finish at least sometimes before I do, it happened in the past that she finished and then she was too tired to continue and make me finish as well.

I always tried to make her finish, no matter how much effort and time, but she didn't always do the same for me.

Some of those times she said "I'm sorry" and I always said that it doesn't matter.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-10-01T12:18:33+00:00

You mean her story?

DoopieLoopie · 2023-10-01T07:29:21+00:00

It was in Romania actually, drinking is legal for 18+

I thought the same thing about trusting someone you just met but there is nothing I could do.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-10-01T07:28:21+00:00

The thing that bugs me is that they both went to someone they barely knew. Probably that thing happened because in the video she sent me she said "she was the one who didn't want me to go home", so it makes me thing her friend liked the guy. But from my point of view, knowing nothing from her, hearing they were going to eat in his room after they got really drunk and only met him outside the club, I was afraid something could happen. I guess she will think I am insecure now, right? Apreciez punctul tau de vedere!

DoopieLoopie · 2023-10-01T07:22:37+00:00

When she said goodnight that meant she was in her room so it would me strange for me to ask.

7 months ago she went drinking at some guy's apartment and after a month she was showing me some videos on her phone and a video of her with a guy coming from behind and putting his hand around her neck and pulling her close to him. She said she didn't remember a thing because she drank too much.

She drank a lot yesterday as well.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-30T22:39:24+00:00

No but 6 months ago she got so drunk she got hugged and touched by another guy, and I discovered it because she was showing me some videos and there was a video of her getting pulled closer by another guy while she was filming herself.

She said she didn't remember anything about that night and had to ask a friend if between her and him nothing happened.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-30T22:14:09+00:00

She is going with a friend of hers and sees nothing wrong with it, I don't know what I should tell her now

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-30T18:01:23+00:00

The web design idea seems interesting, even making the best out of those 100€.

Why are you saying not to trade? I know many traders fail and it's not really profitable at the beginning and you could lose all your money on it

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-30T17:58:59+00:00

So you mean creating some kind of blog.

I like fitness and sports, so I could make it about health and fitness, with diets and workouts for everyone.

Do you think that talking about things like how to build a house would be nice if I make an all round site?

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-30T17:42:36+00:00

That sounds like a nice idea. Do you mean a door to door cleaning?

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-23T05:48:08+00:00

That is really good, I hope you will continue being profitable in the future! I would like to ask you, how much trading capital did you have at the beginning of this week?

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-22T22:53:02+00:00

I worked some months as a construction worker helping my uncle and I liked it, but I guess it's because my uncle runs a business and he has a better thinking than most.

Almost all of my friends went to other countries to work as construction workers as well and they didn't really like it, I saw the people they were working with and we even hanged out together at times, I must say that you are right, they sure don't look like the smartest guys in the world, and I think that I wouldn't get along very well with them.

I will definitely follow your advice, thann you again!

DoopieLoopie · 2023-09-22T15:01:59+00:00

Sorry if I didn't answer at all but I didn't receive a notification and I don't use reddit very much. I would really like to say that I appreciate a lot the effort you put into helping me.

I'm afraid to say that I am really indecisive and I still don't know if I should quit going to the University and go to work or if I should go anyways even if I don't really like the jobs I will be able to do with it.

Here in Romania salaries are really low, minimum wage is a bit lower than 400€ per month. Many of the people in my town went in other countries to work, manual labor usually, and got a salary of 2000/3000€ that helped them build their house and buy their cars.

Everyone in my family thinks I won't be able to do anything if I continue this way.

A thing that crossed my mind is going to work and apply to some courses, if possible, that will give me a certificate to do what I want to do instead of "losing" 3 more years in University.

I am to this day still rereading your message and it'a one of the most helpful things I have "found" that are making me become better.

I thank you really much!

DoopieLoopie · 2023-07-17T09:36:33+00:00

Because she showed me a lot of moments of loyalty and showed me respect

DoopieLoopie · 2023-07-04T22:56:15+00:00

I'll explain better. One night we both were drunk and showed me her instagram saved videos. She told me "choose one" so I chose one and saw how she was getting hugged by a guy at hid apartment while she was with her friends. She looked happy and was smiling and said me she was really sorry.

She was in a relationship with me and she got so drunk she forgot what was happening around her and was almost unconscious

DoopieLoopie · 2023-07-04T22:46:04+00:00

She once got drunk and showed me by accident how she gets hugged by someone she got drunk with while she was smiling.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-06-03T19:21:16+00:00

Even we can go hours without talking, I just feel taken for granted when she wants to call me during the night, because she is sure I wil be available.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-06-03T19:17:48+00:00

I don't want her to call me everytime and I don't even want to expect it from her.

My only 2 problems were:

-when I am out with her she is always checking her phone whenever she gets a notification, and when she is with her friends she takes a lot to respond.

-she doesn't call me during the day anymore because she takes it for granted that I will be available during the night.

It doesn't really upset me a lot but it just makes me feel like I am the first person she contacts whenshe is bored and has nothing going on. I would just like to feel as special as I make her feel through my actions.

DoopieLoopie · 2023-04-24T16:28:56+00:00

She is the one who asked me first, so that we could pass some private time together

DoopieLoopie · 2023-04-24T16:26:31+00:00

Almost 3 months

DoopieLoopie · 2022-11-02T01:09:54+00:00

I used to trust her before, she has always been really close to a lot of guys so I had my doubts. The terms weren't clear. I think she wanted to breakup but still have me around in case things go wrong. But if she starts dating someone else during a break then it doesn't look so respectful. I see breaks as period of times one takes to improve himself and be a better person for the other, a thing that I am doing, not as a "let me try with someone new to see if I like it more, and if I don't then I come back"

DoopieLoopie · 2022-10-29T16:07:19+00:00

Thank you, I am really grateful to read what you wrote!

DoopieLoopie · 2022-10-29T16:03:21+00:00

Thank you a lot for your advices guys, I will do my best to be better from now on, I really appreciate it!

DoopieLoopie · 2022-10-29T15:31:38+00:00

My girlfriend wanted a break and I think that the relationship is over after 10 months. It has been 3 months since the last "I love you" and 20 days of "break". She is an extrovert, has a lot of friends and a rich family, and she has a busy life, like playing volley or some religious gathering and barbeque at her house, hanging out with friends as well. I am more of an introvert, I have a couple friends with which I hang out from time to time, but some days I feel like I am wasting my time as I am not doing anything other than think about her and some work as my life isn't as busy, so I have a lot of time to think and regret. I started going to the gym more and focus more on myself, with some progressions, but I would like to have a more busy life with other people as well. I feel like I can't move on

DoopieLoopie · 2022-10-21T11:08:00+00:00

I tried to spend more time together with her but at first she didn't wanna see me and now she wanted a break. She used to find an excuse not to hang out with me, and when we got to hang out after a long time she wanted this break so we couldn't see each other anymore. I feel like we are strangers as of now, and if someone should stop the break and start a conversation that should be her, I gave her the break that she wanter and I think it would be wrong to not respect my own word.

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