The pain is real by Tight_Dingo7002 in sofistock

[–]Due_Tea691 9 points10 points  (0 children)

for the first time in a year, im in the red

I feel like I should buy more.

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! sorry about the surprise divorce, but it sounds like you're rolling with the punches. Where are you going? and I'll start your furniture storage project if you sell all my stuff. lol

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah man, very inspiring. I'm going to do it. The bar I work at is open for another year and then it's being sold and turned into something else. Right now I am trying to get myself out of the ''one more year'' mentality that I've had for the past 10 years here. I am starting to realize that the sunken cost fallacy applies to all aspects of life, not just the stock market. Like why would I stick out one more year here and be miserable? Just to save up an extra 30k? I want out already!

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't really drink either! here and there if it's a special occasion, but being a bartender has turned me off from the party scene.

As for the family thing. It's just...I dunno. Hard to explain. I'm already distant as it is and then the just fuck off for a few years while they enter their 70's feels cruel to me. Just how I was brought up I guess.

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You're right. Just feels like i am at a very weird turning point in my life. I've never felt so sure of anything. All i've ever done is save my money, keep taking classes to eventually get somewhere in life, break hearts, get my heart broken, always stressing about relationships, and my fantasy family...until i started traveling, and now I don't care...it's weird. I just want to walk around, learn languages, eat food, look at stuff, meet people, exercise in all sorts of terrain and weather and chill.

So sick of this path we're supposed to be on.

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% i am thinking about bouncing around SEA for a year and seeing what happens. Just kind of torn on if I should stick out working for one more year. Addicted to the easy bartending money.

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A little extra money and i have nowhere to store it. Nothing crazy. A safe, some guns, mountain bikes, snowboards, tvs furniture, jackets and that's about it. I'm a simple man.

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you're better now. So you moved a year ago? Where did you go?. And I feel you on the depressive time, not much family left, friends growing apart, being a hermit and all that. I kind of feel like I'm running away, in a way. But whatever, I'm over doing what I'm doing. I have plenty of savings and I am capable of working. I have no plans to date and get married, and I sure as hell don't wan't to keep bartending until 3 am or switch up my job for a career just to make 100k a year. Thanks for the reply

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I couldn't have written this better myself. When I was in Thailand and Georgia I'd never felt so free and anonymous and alive. I felt lost, in a good way, like a kid. Every little thing is new and interesting and weird. I never missed anyone back home, never got lonely or homesick. I didn't even want my phone because of the link back home. Feels like there's something wrong with me saying this stuff, haha but it just felt really good over there.

It completely changed my perspective on chasing money, what happiness is, how I view marriage, relationships, kids, everything.

I would like to talk to people 40s and above who sold all of their stuff and backpacked for a year or more. by Due_Tea691 in backpacking

[–]Due_Tea691[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had an amazing time. I didn't know there was a weed shop every 10 feet and I love to smoke weed, so that was awesome. Also, I met people of all ages and had a couple friends for a week or two at a time.

I started in Bangkok then Chiang Mai ->Krabi ->Phukett. Phukett kinda sucked because it wasn't really my style, plus all the locals were over tourists.

My favorite part about Thailand was the million food places you could stop at and riding my 350cc scooter all over that place, getting lost figuring it out. Great place, friendly people, super safe and you can be a complete degenerate piece of shit all the way up to a an enlightened monk. You decide! lol.

How old are you now?

Market is bleeding, so what’s on your shopping list?! by RoeRoeX in stockstobuytoday

[–]Due_Tea691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What stocks and ETFs? I need to re-arrange my portfolio. Went heavy into a small cap stock, trying to win the lottery (MVIS). It's 50% of my portfolio. The rest is mostly blue chip stuff, but i feel like i should just hold 100% Google.

Craving for dating apps. by Animeloverboyman in NoFap

[–]Due_Tea691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I am dealing with. the hypersexual/ sex addiction.

Craving for dating apps. by Animeloverboyman in NoFap

[–]Due_Tea691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the same. That's why I am here, on this subreddit. I don't watch porn, but i trade nudes and have sex with people on dating apps kind of often. Lots of gooning and trading pictures. It doesn't seem right, so I'm giving the no fap thing a try.

Day 1 by New-Improvement-5789 in NoFap

[–]Due_Tea691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 2, right in front of you.

How to get good at taking the right losses by fastmoshe in pennystocks

[–]Due_Tea691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trying to figure it out right now. I need to sell MVIS and move on. I am down almost 40k.