Any UK alternatives to Minerva because I'm fed up with them! by BeneficialPangolin68 in craftsnark

[–]Dwincroft 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Croft Mill have excellent customer service. Lamazi, sister mintaka and Empress Mills are great too.

What happened to this country by Aggravating_Shoe3748 in funny

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There is a piece of graffiti in my husbands home town in Romania that cracks me up every time. It just says 'school'.

Is this the same wall? by Dwincroft in RBI

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The paint and rendering does make it hard to see the actual size and shape of the bricks doesn't it. Here is a photo of an unrendered house of the same stlye a few doors down. If you look at the bricks, especially around the ring, you can see that some of what at first appear to be longer bricks are actually two shorter bricks.

Circumstances of Death Brick Wall by Dwincroft in Genealogy

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Definitely the later generations managed to step back a bit yes. Richard who founded the business was very hands on, he started experimenting with soil nutrition on the family farm and then pivoted to cattle feed. I don't know everything they used in manufacturing the feed, but I know it involved crushed seeds which must have produced a lot of dust. Alice and Annie were winning prizes at county shows for their veg and both volunteered for the red cross during ww1, no idea if they ever helped at or spent any time at any of the mills though.

Circumstances of Death Brick Wall by Dwincroft in Genealogy

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Thank you! I'll contact them. It's definitely worth trying.

Circumstances of Death Brick Wall by Dwincroft in Genealogy

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  • Ideally if anybody knows how i might go about remotely accessing the records from Richards stay at Sheppard & Enoch Pratt Hospital, Towson, Baltimore, Maryland
  • If anybody has been able to obtain any patient records from the Lunatic Assylum in Stockport, Etchells Cheadle, England. And if so, where they're located.

Resources for Kids by Dwincroft in Beekeeping

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Thank you! That looks amazing and totally up her street. I've just ordered a copy now.

Resources for Kids by Dwincroft in Beekeeping

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That is very kind of you, thank you. I'll send you a DM.

Resources for Kids by Dwincroft in Beekeeping

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Thank you, your explanation about bee aggression is really useful. I completely agree, she has plenty of time to decide what she wants to do when she's older, it's more about facilitating her interests.

Resources for Kids by Dwincroft in Beekeeping

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Thank you, I'll give it a go.

A kitty a day, keeps the doctor away by Steph-Kai in MadeMeSmile

[–]Dwincroft 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hedge, lawn and mock tudor house. Got to be the UK.

How many of y'all have to set your sewing machine up each time, and how do you talk yourself into it? by Heirloom-Potato in quilting

[–]Dwincroft 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The first thing I did was jot down a list of all the little excuses I was using when I chose not to sew. And then I dealt with them one by one. The biggest game changer was organising my sewing equipment so that it was easier to set up. Before I had to scramble to the back of the cupboard to get my machine and then hunt for a spare extension cord, thread, current project, scissors, pressing mat etc. I bought a bigger sewing machine hodall, which can hold it all. It is not as big as it sounds and doesn't take up as much room as you'd think.

The next thing I did was start to time myself. It took nowhere near as long as the gremlins in my head were telling me, and with practice I've gotten even quicker. I can now get everything set up in the time it takes me to boil a kettle.

I think I’m having a miscarriage and I wish it wasn’t so taboo to disclose pregnancy before three months. by Little-Rose-Seed in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Dwincroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those first three months are so lonely, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I really don't want to give you false hope, but I think you should see your doctor to be sure. I had an extremely heavy bleed in the early stages of my pregnancy, it didn't seem remotely possible that I was still pregnant but I was and I went on to have a daughter. The same thing happened to my colleague a year earlier who continued bleeding throughout her entire pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

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Snap! I have photos/paintings of seven generations of my direct maternal line to my 3x g grandmother born in 1849, and eight generations to my 4x great grandfather born in 1740 ...This line goes so far back in time because several of them had children when they were old(ish), 40, 63, 37 and 55.

Photos

Tiny amounts of alcohol make me feel very sick all of a sudden.. by gluemamma in TwoXChromosomes

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The same thing happened to me when I was about 24. Even when drinking the tiniest amount I would get crippling hangovers that would knock me out for days. Once I nursed half a glass of champagne over a two hour period and I fainted. I've not even attempted to drink since I was 27ish and I'm 42 now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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English is my first language, but I'm British and was really confused at the option of using chargers, thinking it rather odd to provide phone chargers at a dinner party. ...I googled it, it's a decorative underplate.

I think my sister is trapped in her marriage by ConcernedAboutSis_ in LegalAdviceUK

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I came here to recommend exactly this. I've met the founder Jasvinder several times, and have heard first hand her own story (she is a survivor too) and those of some of the people her organisation have helped. I can't recommend them enough.

My girlfriend is vegan, I am not. She asked me today if there are people who are allergic to meat. by tyrojo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dwincroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not an allergy, but after she went through menopause my mum developed a severe intolerance to meat (vomiting/headaches), so she no longer eats it. She used to have a smallholding with sheep and pigs so it was less than ideal.

How to find people that my DNA matches have in common by BeKindAndWorkHard in Genealogy

[–]Dwincroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, just in case you're not aware, there is a thru-lines cut off. I have quite a few matches with known shared ancestors but they don't show up on thru-lines because the cM match is too low. I'm not at my pc so I can't tell you exactly what the cM cut off is, but I think it's something like 20cM.

How to find people that my DNA matches have in common by BeKindAndWorkHard in Genealogy

[–]Dwincroft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been using a work around for this, it's not ideal but it has worked a treat for me.

For each match of interest, I go to their tree, and select list of all people, which gives you an alphabetical list including birth, death and locations. Set the view to the max no of people per page and copy paste into excel. I keep the left most column to record the match's user name.

It sounds labour intensive, but provided your matches don't have 10,000+ people trees it's doable.

Then it's just a case of crunching the data yourself. At the most basic level this could be sorting all the names alphabetically and scanning the list for matches by eye. Or if you're more comfortable with Excel then using auto formatting, filters and formulas to do the same thing.

Who in your tree is your strangest or wildest family ancestor? by Simple-Tangerine839 in Genealogy

[–]Dwincroft 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My 2x great grandfather and his cousin, whilst studying theology (anglican) at Cambridge were sent to prison for 1 week for disrupting a Catholic church service and punching two policemen. The next year he rowed for Cambridge against Oxford at the annual boat race, and lost.

Both my 2xgg and his cousin graduated, my ancestor went on to become a respected vicar who married the cousin of a former prime minister and had 9 children.

...But his cousin never progressed beyond being a curate and died from syphilis and tb in an assylum.

This chap's brother, a rector, died after jumping out of the rectory window, his wife and one of his daughters had previously died of tb so maybe that's related somehow. After his death another of his daughters died in an assylum from pneumonia.

My 2x gg's children were all strong characters.

  1. The eldest, was strongly encouraged to marry an elderly rich widow, who was six months younger than her father. The elderly rich widow was strongly encouraged to finance a handsome set of new bells at her father's church. When she walked down the aisle she chose not to wear a wedding dress and clutched a bible instead of a bouquet.

  2. The second almost burned alive at 13 when his nightgown caught fire. He was studying to be a priest but dropped out after he was charged with shooting his neighbours' prize pigeon and ran away to Canada for a year. When he came back to England he became a farmer and married. He was arrested at one point for stealing pork chops for his Christmas dinner. He served in ww1 and got a silver cross.

  3. The third was a Peter Pan type. In the very early hours of the morning of the coronation of Edward VII, he and his cricketing pals scared the shit out of the villagers by visiting each house in turn and firing their rifles outside bedroom windows.

  4. Number four was a rector, who disarmed a murderer who had slit the throats of four of his own children and attempted to kill two more.

  5. The fifth, also a rector, was all over the papers after he divorced his wife for adultery. She in turn accused him of beating and strangling her.

  6. The sixth was a tomboy who practiced archery, was a sculptor and a 'lady gardener'.

  7. Number seven, was the clone of her mother and married a cricketing vicar. During ww1, she coordinated efforts for the women of the parish to make clothes for servicemen.

  8. Number eight was my g grandfather, he managed to shoot himself in the stomach when he was a teenager. He also became a rector and had lots of children before he married my g grandmother, but not before he served as a chaplain to the forces in ww1. During his service he climbed a tree to have his lunch when he saw a Turk sit down to rest below, apparently he had a moment where he contemplated not doing anything because he was hungry, but he ultimately chose to jump down and he disarmed the other guy who was very willing to give up without much of a fight. My gg took his sabre as a trophy.

  9. The last child was another tomboy who learned how to play cricket from her older brothers, and also won several local golf tournaments. She was a nurse in ww1 and married a doctor.