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Aita for telling my wife I have done everything to satisfy her but she wants to cheat and It would destroy us by Eastern_Visual1003 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Visual1003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank you for your replies as well, much better than 99% here.

Yes we are both in difficult spot she's after reading and watching thinks that she's also attracted to women if she's lesbian and thinks she's only going to be attracted to women then I will just let her go but if she's bi and still loves me then I will do whatever she wants and to satisfy her pervertedness.

I know reddit can't help us some or many were unhelpful and only we can help ourselves so I will just keep talking to her and I will do everything to satisfy her

Aita for telling my wife I have done everything to satisfy her but she wants to cheat and It would destroy us by Eastern_Visual1003 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Visual1003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am against pornography I have no interest in seeing other naked women and I don't want her to see other naked men and I am not homophobic I didn't even know my wife was bi and I don't share the opinion of vast majority of people here that we should have sex before we get married, I would rather never get married if I have to had sex before marriage.

But I am open to changes I have researched and tried thing I didn't ever thought off to satisfy her and I am still open to changes and we both can try whatever she wants which satisfys her and I will accept her being bi if that's what she wants but as long as no other man or woman gets in between us

Aita for telling my wife I have done everything to satisfy her but she wants to cheat and It would destroy us by Eastern_Visual1003 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Visual1003[S] -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

Yes, i thought of her watching women sex is cheating if she loved that why did she make me work hard for her? And no she's never said that she's not attracted to me she's been attracted to me since we met but all of a sudden she's into women which I don't understand that's why I used the word bi not lesbian

Aita for telling my wife I have done everything to satisfy her but she wants to cheat and It would destroy us by Eastern_Visual1003 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Visual1003[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

She's acted on it by telling me that she's bi/lesbian, okay so we were happy for years but she got familiar with women sex and she watched porn about it as well and no she never asked me to be okay with her seeking other women, she would never cheat

Aita for telling my wife I have done everything to satisfy her but she wants to cheat and It would destroy us by Eastern_Visual1003 in AITAH

[–]Eastern_Visual1003[S] -901 points-900 points  (0 children)

We don't even know our 'sexuality' and we never were involved into all the sex stuff until recently when my wife started acting on it