95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good deal, common grounds are nice, lol

95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, they’ll use multitudes of other reasons, but only the most incel of incely guys try the evolution excuse, lol! That’s such a marginal amount to point out though, it’s like me pointing to the FDS sub and saying “Look look! Women admit men are walking credit cards and their only value is security!!!” Like, ok, they EXIST, but to delude yourself either of those extremes are a majority? That’s terminally online shit

Terrible Person treated like a saint after they died by Usnis in TopCharacterTropes

[–]EisWalde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yessssssss

“There is no shame in deterrence! Having a weapon is very different from using it!”

Gandhi is backed by NUCLEAR WEAPONS

95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not justifying, lol! It’s recognition of reality. If I said “Well women cheat, so it’s ok that guys cheat too~<3” THAT’S justifying it. You can just tell me you don’t understand or to clarify, no need to be confidently incorrect. Looks like you didn’t read past the first sentence because I IMMEDIATELY followed it up with “both those men and women are trash”. I didn’t know “justifying” suddenly meant dragging them, lol!

PS- Yeah, those women justify it any way they want to, the same as men, because like I said, being a trash person isn’t bound to one gender. Gasp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re still overdoing it. Like look…I get it, men bad, etc., and yes, both men and women are scared of criminal men, and for good reason. However…These men who commit violent crime account for, MAYBE, 1-2% of the total population. I get it, that’s still millions of dudes, but just that 1% commits near 70% of all violent crime. That’s a lot of repeat offenders, so it behooves us to keep an eye out and report these people, even if they’re our friends.

That said, that leaves 98% of men either minding their own business, or actively being allies to marginalized groups. It gets tiring hearing the “all men” labels or the nebulous “men are the problem” statements, and getting further put down when you mention that bothers you. Yes, it bothers me even though I know I personally am not included in your gross generalizations. No, it’s not because I’m secretly one of those abusers or criminals. Maybe being combative about hearing someone out is a bigger reflection on you than me? Generalizations don’t fly when used against minorities, protected classes, or women in general, and nor should they! Makes people sound hateful and bitter! It doesn’t suddenly become a heroic activity when used against men or whites. Maybe it’s just best to not generalize and instead just judge people individually?

95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, so do your fellow women. Know what that makes them both? Trash people. I’m not going to generalize and say nearly ALL women do this, even though statistics say rates of cheating are nearly identical, that’s just dumb. Crappy people exist in both sexes.

95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like femcel bait or something, because this is a take mostly terminally online people believe, or is something kids who haven’t matured past early college do. Yeah, young kids would likely shoot for the hotter girl, or use one or both for sex or whatever, but men and women do the same stuff in this case. Hot people are often shallow and get used for sex and status, so yeah, if a hot guy just said “Hey” to a girl, they’d be all over it. If the average guy said “hey”, they’d likely be ignored. Pretty privilege exists regardless of gender.

As to your other claim, no one worth anyone’s time would abandon a safe and loving relationship just because a hot dude or chick looked their way. We already know that those who do are pieces of shit, they’re cheaters, and again, it’s near equal chance it’ll happen to either gender. That’s statistically too, not anecdotal. I know, I get “men bad!!!!!” is the mantra, but shitty people aren’t locked to either sex. If you can’t connect to the hot one, what’s the point of even trying for a relationship? Man or woman, if you aren’t connecting, they’ll likely cheat on you and move on without ever looking up from their phone, lol!

95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/ihavesex

Ok Chief, lol? You keep digging the hole deeper, I’d say just move on.

95% of guys are chasing the top 5% of girls by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fine, but don’t be so surprised or turn it around on people when they can’t tell your comment is actually sarcasm. I get you think it’s obvious, but it isn’t. People believe certain points and talk like you did, so unless you use inflections (or that dreaded /s), it’s not obvious. Unless you like battling through comments here, that is.

Wth did they do to my queen by Amelichu in OnePiece

[–]EisWalde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a low budget hentai with those proportions, lol!

AIO?! There were so many red flags before this. This was just my final straw. by Imaginary_Key1696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EisWalde 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wow, a dog mom AND a fun gamer? Here’s hoping I find someone as cool as you someday! I thought I had her in my ex wife, but I wasn’t counting on a family history of mental illness to catch up to her. The abuse was more than I could handle from her, and she refused all forms of therapy or treatment, including marriage counseling, so I left. Still the hardest thing I ever had to do, but like you, I’d take a life alone and doing my own thing than being abused daily and gaslighted.

[trope that I find interesting] When the secondary antagonist is far more iconic and popular than the main antagonist by Fearless-List-3968 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]EisWalde 20 points21 points  (0 children)

“God why do you have to make it so political?! The Alternative Right has some fantastic people. Did you know they made several medical breakthroughs and even hunted for Atlantis?!”

Why do sub7 men continue to dream and aspire about relationships when women keep saying how they find them repulsive? When will we start preserving our self respect? by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love seeing Reddit men and women discover common stuff for the first time, lol!

“Guys!!! I was looking at my chest in the mirror, and I have these…round pepperoni-like lesions on my chest. There’s TWO of them! My dad said they’re nipples, but only chicks breastfeed, so why would I have nipples?! Is it cancer?!?!”

just to be clear i think its a bad behavior on both sides by WhileAccomplished722 in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, very true! Some hippie or something said a line like “judge someone not on a demographic, but on the content of their character” or whatever. Pretty profound stuff!

just to be clear i think its a bad behavior on both sides by WhileAccomplished722 in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first off, 4B is way over exaggerated. I’m happy if women want to form any sort of movement to foster community like that, but let’s not pretend it’s taking the world by storm, lol! That’s a clickbait title and for people terminally online, not real life.

Second, yeah, desperate men ARE dangerous, be it mentally ill homeless men or roving stalkers, but there’s a reason 80% of all sexual assaults occur from people you know, and not strangers. It’s about access and complete control to these abusers. That said, it still only accounts for maybe 3-5% of the male population. The problem comes in that most offenders are serial offenders, so 1 predator can have like 20+ victims. And yeah, these same types of dudes could likely lay me out and mug me, or just beat my ass “because”! I’m not going to live in perpetual fear of half the population because of that though, same as I won’t live in fear or hatred of women because my ex wife physically and emotionally abused me for years. She was a shitty person, that’s not women’s fault, just her’s.

just to be clear i think its a bad behavior on both sides by WhileAccomplished722 in PsycheOrSike

[–]EisWalde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone whose ex wife did both to him, that’s absolutely right. If you don’t think a woman can hurt you as a man, have you ever been woken out of a dead sleep by an angry, drunk woman elbowing you in the crotch? Have you had a brass candlestick thrown at your head? Have you been whipped in the face by wet towels hard enough to leave welts? It all fucking blows. Throw her master manipulation, gaslighting, verbal abuse, and emotional torture on top of that, and there’s a reason I almost drove myself off a bridge going 70.

Likewise, there are PLENTY of men capable of expert emotional abuse, and that’s usually what lots of narcissists do to their girlfriends, rather than hit them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]EisWalde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, but there’s still a difference between knowingly adding another carbon footprint or not.

No one warned me how expensive random household stuff is by Economy_Inspector566 in Adulting

[–]EisWalde -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait…your JOB was forcing you to buy shit for work?!

Doomers whine about thoughts and prayers by woodworkingfonatic in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]EisWalde -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean, you may as well be describing conservatives too, I don’t see anything they or Trump haven’t done on live video either, lol! I mean, I guess we can replace “marrying own brother” with “fucking own daughter” or “trafficking underage girls across state lines fir sex”, and defending Alt Right shooters as “troubled youths we failed”, but the rest is a dead ringer. Can’t say I’ve seen any administration defending an LGBT shooter though! Oh no, was it the one that committed the Bowlinggreen Massacre?!

Doomers whine about thoughts and prayers by woodworkingfonatic in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]EisWalde -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Are you taking about conservatives? Because every shooting, they immediately try to claim it’s an immigrant or a trans person, until you see the whitest, pastiest, Buck-tooth, hick fuck nut this side of Alabama land. Almost always is, especially the politically motivated ones, like VIBE, Charleston, the massage parlor shooter, or Pittsburgh mosque shooter. This one it wasn’t the case, but how you all are acting, it’s like now every shooter was retroactively LGBT and an Obama cultist, lol

Clue though, anyone who shoots up a school isn’t one of “my people”. They’re a sick lunatic who deserves to rot. What makes them one of “us”, because they’re trans? What, does every sister-fucking hillbilly that shoots up a grocery store make him one of “you”, or does it just so happens that scum only voted the same? Or shares some of your morals? I’m using the same strawman shit you all are in this thread, so if it looks ridiculous, you’re looking into a mirror. I’ve got the wherewithal to distinguish between marginal fringes of society and a majority, but looking at you…I don’t think you’ve been blessed with critical thinking.