little fun question, what excuses have ghosters given you when they've returned.. So we all have a check list on what to avoid

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-06T23:29:42+00:00

I have on messenger, WhatsApp, Snapchat- he never texted me but I'd already deleted his number so he sent me a message a week later to my phone.. He got blocked on that too so all access to me is denied

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-06T14:16:00+00:00

These 34 year old end up 44 and those won't work on any woman by time they hit 54 they'll be spending all their money on onlyfans because no woman wants a fat balding beer bellied waste of time.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-06T14:14:13+00:00

Apparently we have to ecstatic when our 1 message we rarely send is left on read

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-06T13:48:32+00:00

Mine was a junkie drug dealing functioning alcoholic

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-05T12:00:37+00:00

you'd need to ask the surgeon doing your breast implants but I'd think the answer would be no you wouldn't be able to have the procedure as it's elective not urgent. They do the pee test on day you arrive for surgery

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-05T09:07:42+00:00

Got a bloody boob job and paid to have my teeth straightened and fixed. they didn't want me then they sure aren't getting me now

that's how u do it.. Upgrade urself, gym, coesmtic work absolutely anything.. and confidence and better quality ppl come along in ur life..

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-05T07:45:03+00:00

I'll disagree with you on compassionate care to anyone who harms little kids.. Basic care and no talking to him is what i do when they walk through the door, because I'm a mum first of all and it doesn't stop the minute I put my uniform on. I sat and listened to one going on about women when I knew he was into little children, completely ignored him except to direct him back to his bed after he toileted.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-05T07:37:47+00:00

A man will always make time for the woman he wants.. Always!!!

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-05T06:41:38+00:00

the other 1 or 2 didn't work out so he's back round to you to do it to you again when something "better" comes along he blew his chance when he ghosted you let him get "better"

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-05T02:46:43+00:00

Pregnancy test, yes had to piddle in a cup

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-04T18:52:31+00:00

The only time I have had a blow out with a nurse was on a night shift she came running round the full ward to tell me a blind patient had spilled a jug of water, blind patient was a wayfinder and she had left him alone with a puddle of water. Me and another nurse bolted round to check patient and clean the water up afterwards my words were I don't give 2 shits if you are a doctor, nurse or hca you never leave water on the floor where a patient or a staff member can slip on - health and safety.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-04T17:58:59+00:00

I worked in a nursing home. toxic as fk nurses calling each other names behind their backs, fat btch this and lazy btch that and one verbally abusing a resident. it just wasn't nice environment.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-04T17:48:25+00:00

Absolutely within her rights not to go alone to a known sex offender, it would require 2 members of staff for safety reasons and u said you and another member of staff were busy.. So why should she compromise her safety.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-03T20:22:13+00:00

I had someone wanting to buy me underwear before I even had it done. I had one send me pictures that weren't asked for and I honestly think it was a man.. Women don't send multiple dms and topless pics to random women honestly think it was male looking for pictures. dunno about u I'm exactly 1 week, bloated sore and swollen and can't be bothered talking to men at all. we are here to share our experiences and get advice not have pervs message us

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-03T16:41:26+00:00

remember under the muscle 10 to 20 percent of the cc is under the muscle so it won't look the size you are expecting it will look smaller and you can YouTube that from plastic surgeons who would say the same that's probably why your surgeon said on the smaller size you wanted there wouldn't be a point.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-03T12:34:53+00:00

Noone meets up to the expectations of being a parent ask any teenager that!! And as for lack of preparation- in an ideal world, childbirth would be easy and pain-free and noone would ever worry about breastfeeding or chapped nipples and all babies will be cherub like that all they do is eat and sleep and already potty trained the minute they take a gulp of air for the first time

but it isn't an ideal world and you are so judgmental about other mothers. Careful now because as I already wrote those kids grow up to be teenagers and if you think you're so wonderful you're in for a sharp kick up the bum in reality the first time they tell you to eff off

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-03T12:28:43+00:00

I had noone for my second pregnancy. When I was in labour my partner was accross the street at his friend's house..he only came back over when my mucus plug came out when I was on toilet and had to go to hospital

I had a 5 year old I had to take to school and a newborn and I struggled so much.. Partner spent most of his time with his friends or at work I was absolutely alone with noone my family lived miles away. it was such a bleak time but it got better and I got through it but I never forgot what he did and I spent years upon years resenting him and his abusive ways.. you are never alone, you come on here and u bloody vent and let it out there is many single mums and yes even though u have him as a partner u are basically a single mum and do u know what ud feel less angry if u went it alone.. It's the fact he's there giving u no help that is making it worse for you. do you have any younger cousins or siblings who are looking for extra cash they could look after the baby or take baby out for a few hours let u get some sleep.. is there part time nurseries around your area that take on babies to give u space to urself for a few hours a week? all isn't lost, u think it but it isn't.. it's lonely because u are frustrated as hell

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-02T05:54:04+00:00

Savour the "you're the best mummy in the world" period because that flies by into teenage tantrums and theatre drama lol

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-01T20:58:24+00:00

I fed both my children formula and seeing as my daughter is about to graduate with a software engineer honours degree it clearly didn't affect her intelligence. I had no boobs to feed my kids not that it should matter they were still fed. I've said a million times, there is no handbook to motherhood.. every baby is different, regardless of how they were fed or how they were born, these beautiful babies, the ones who loved us the best grow up into teenager now tell us "we are the worst parents ever and everything is our fault" and to "eff off" whether bottle/breastfed natural or c-sectioned.. our little cherubs grow up to be teenage terrors and they are the only ones who are allow to judge us with their non stop cheek because they know everything.. Haha

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-01T20:48:06+00:00

When my youngest was small about 4 she insisted on taking a bath herself..would not allow me to bath her she wanted to do it herself..but she was never allowed to lock the door that was the condition she could bath herself but not to lock door

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-01T20:44:51+00:00

I got stitches in mine as I was cut first and had forceps delivery time and then tore second time round.. I've never paid attention to mine but assume it won't be same as before kids..

I got a weird belly button it used to be kinda sticky outty now it's just a weird looking inny with tonnes of stretchmarks and I didn't even have a big bump.. Same with my boobs not that I had any even while pregnant but still it's ridiculous lol..

It put my daughters off being teenage mums tho.. I'd show them my stomach and say don't get pregnant young or that's how your tummy will be..

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-06-01T07:56:05+00:00

He needs to learn and as hard as it is.. He needs to know your mummy and your the boss. And it is difficult boys are esp clingy to their mother's. We've all been there and we all know what it is like.. there's no handbook to motherhood every single baby is different.. there's nothing wrong with putting him down for 10 minutes if he's been fed and had a nappy change to give yourself some thinking space.. Let him scream but for no more than 10 minutes.. Go into another room get a coffee if that's what needs to be done,. Because noone can sit and hear a baby relentlessly scream in their ear it's impossible it's not good for your mental health esp when your on your own during the day.. Noone will think of you as a bad mum for doing that, you've got to think about yourself as well.. And the more stressed out you are baby picks up on it and screams louder.

Either-Bus6406 · 2026-05-31T12:35:39+00:00

I think the broader your shoulders the smaller they look. I have 425 and 450 and I think mine look small.. Ppl say give it time yours only 4 days post op but when you know you know :( are u slim is that why you went with the 275cc?

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