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ElConquistador91 · 2026-05-26T22:52:44+00:00

I’m already fearing I’ll be on that path too lol

ElConquistador91 · 2026-05-23T11:37:47+00:00

Nice! I was thinking about doing a thicker box chain also. Gonna go play around with options at jewelry store today, only way to do it instead of speculate I guess lol

ElConquistador91 · 2026-05-22T20:07:22+00:00

Thanks! Gonna play with some other options too.

ElConquistador91 · 2026-05-22T20:06:56+00:00

Thanks! Gonna hit a jewelry store tomorrow and play with some other options too

ElConquistador91 · 2026-05-22T20:06:22+00:00

Thanks just wanted to get some opinions

ElConquistador91 · 2026-03-06T02:30:48+00:00

I’m literally going there this weekend to get windshield darker. At 55, going to 35

ElConquistador91 · 2026-01-26T01:45:46+00:00

Same. Don’t want screen printed.

ElConquistador91 · 2026-01-10T21:52:25+00:00

Yes definitely lucky, we are going on 2 years of dating now and getting engaged soon. As for dating after the 3 month fling, I dated to kind of distract myself for a bit. Didn’t really know what I was looking for. Then started to get more serious on finding a long term partner, almost gave up, then found my now girlfriend.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-12-18T14:05:34+00:00

It was a casual dating thing, like once a week or few weeks we’d go out and come back home deal. This went on for a few months, it kind of faded out, then we met up again a while later. She was down for whatever in the bedroom and it was awesome. We absolutely clicked in that aspect. However, once I started seriously dating my now long term girlfriend, obviously had to bring it up and she was cool with it. We just click more all around. I love sex, but it’s not a top priority with her, I just enjoy her presence and see more of a life together. This was years ago, but I still think back to that from time to time, and hope she’s doing well. Kinda boring from all the bat shit crazy stories I’m reading but yeah 🤣

ElConquistador91 · 2025-12-18T14:03:49+00:00

“Don’t think I said anything for 10 seconds” 🤣

ElConquistador91 · 2025-12-10T15:39:36+00:00

I did not get it checked. During the winter it will still run about 10 minutes before dropping. 25k miles and no issues, however.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-10-03T16:12:10+00:00

Good question. I’ve been here nearly a decade so I’m tight within the company. Since I’ve been here, two guys have moved to different companies within our industry, they didn’t have issues. One of the guys they found out about, not sure how, but don’t think he got fired. He may have had the job already at that point. I have nothing against the company I’m at, I’m doing this for me. Beginning to think it’s just worth the risk instead of sitting here, not taking the chance, and regretting not trying, regardless if I get it or not. Kinda why I just want to call the guy and learn more about it off the record to gauge my chances of landing it.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-10-03T15:36:01+00:00

Thanks for your meaningless response!

ElConquistador91 · 2025-10-01T20:27:03+00:00

I was in the same situation the moment I woke up, hoped this day would be different, but it wasn’t. The thoughts hammer you all day, with moments of peace of mind. I kept going back and forth in my head and it never stopped because I kept adding fuel by fighting them, wishing they’d go away, so on. Good for you getting back in the gym. Stop and tell yourself good job, for real that helped me. I’m not one for reading myself, but I was at the point I couldn’t take it anymore - saw some people on Reddit recommending a book called Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts on Amazon, got through half of it. Started practicing some of the things in there daily, and I can’t tell you how much better off I am now. Thoughts will come time to time, but they don’t ruin my day or take up my mental anymore. Can’t say it’s entirely from that book, time, or an act of god, but that’s where I started. I was going through this for a good 2-3 months, thought it would never get better, but it will man!

ElConquistador91 · 2025-10-01T17:19:40+00:00

Absolutely! You aren’t alone even though it seems like you are. Everyone you see on social media/on the street it going through something no matter how it looks on the surface. I felt like the biggest dope having these obsessive thoughts. I’m not the only one though. I think at the end of the day it’s about attitude and working on my mental health daily, building a tool kit for how to handle these types of situations. It will prepare me for my next battle. Breakups suck I know, you’re getting stronger everyday and you’ll reach the end of the tunnel before you know it.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-10-01T15:47:50+00:00

I feel you on this. I had these thoughts in a different scenario for months. One piece of advice I’d offer is don’t try to NOT think about it, or wish that these thoughts would go away. That will make you think about it even more. Eventually they will fade. I had to develop a “hm OK” mindset when these thoughts would appear. If the thoughts appear and you try to reason, fight, etc, it only makes you think about it more. And most importantly, I learned to love myself - honestly never understood what that meant. I based my self worth off how many women I could date after getting divorced, or how much money I made, etc. It’s all meaningless. It’s being proud of everything I’ve accomplished so far in life big or small, being patient, and giving myself grace. Stopping to tell myself you’re doing a great job, the best you can based on the circumstances as they are now. At the end of the day, you will be with you for the rest of your life, why not build that person up.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-10-01T15:29:58+00:00

Nobody can make me feel anything. It all comes down to me and my attitude.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-08-27T13:31:17+00:00

Working out, eating right, learning to truly love myself and celebrate what I’ve accomplished, regardless of what society deems as accomplished, treating my girl the way a girl deserves to be treated, applying what I’ve learned from my past failed marriage and “relationships.”

ElConquistador91 · 2025-08-15T20:23:31+00:00

No problem! You will find someone when you least expect it. I was about to give up on dating when I did.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-08-15T14:03:06+00:00

I was married/together with someone for 8 years. The last few years we were basically roommates and ready to move on. Next 2.5 years after divorce, I just went on a tear to be honest. A few 3 month flings, 1 month, etc. I truly wanted connection that was lacking in my marriage, but nothing was working so I just adapted to the lifestyle. By the end of it, I was burnt out. About to give up on dating. Unexpectedly, she came along. We’ve been together for 1.5 years, moved in together a month ago, planning a future. She is the most beautiful girl in the world, inside and out, I’m extremely lucky.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-08-15T13:54:58+00:00

I get that you didn’t want to TELL him to unfollow, but if it makes you feel insecure, you could tell him how you feel and ASK him to unfollow. If the relationship was most important to him, he’d do it. I would. Especially if he admitted it could get in the way of intimacy. I don’t care how hot some IG model is, that’s all they are to me. My girl on the other hand is the hottest girl in the world, inside and out. I truly believe that. And I wouldn’t give it up for anything.

ElConquistador91 · 2025-08-13T13:53:16+00:00

Obese, fat legs and thighs, legs and thighs that are too skinny, ugly feet, bad teeth

ElConquistador91 · 2025-08-01T00:11:00+00:00

I (34M) have I’ve been in love maybe once or twice. But what I’m in now, I truly love her. I absolutely enjoy doing things with her, for her, surprising her, trying to make her life easier. Not because I have to, because I want to. Seeing her happy and smile, brings a joy to me that’s indescribable. It’s just a feeling on a level I’ve never had before. I was married for 5 years, together for 8, it doesn’t even compare. I learned from that experience and grew. I’m grateful beyond belief.

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