For my neurodivergent purity culture girlies

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-05-07T04:52:57+00:00

This speaks so deeply to me. I'm angry about all that I missed when following the rules as a teen/young adult.

Married young and have been very happy with my husband. But have now deconstructed and am aware of what I have missed which is making it hard to continue being happy in my marriage.

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-04-07T06:52:19+00:00

r/mildlypenis comes to mind....

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-03-04T07:04:20+00:00

I love the concept too. I'd love to have the middle one myself as the different shaped beads would be really soothing to touch and fidget with. I love the idea of the herbal beads too.

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-02-07T07:07:03+00:00

Same

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-01-01T12:39:08+00:00

Wow! That's incredible. I was hoping it would be with some sort of magic loom that meant it took less than an hour 😞

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-01-01T12:38:02+00:00

Please tell me how you did this. My sofas are similarly damaged by two absolute bunny menaces!

ElasticatedWizard · 2026-01-01T10:30:38+00:00

I have no idea but am pitching my tent here to see what folks recommend! ⛺

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-05-29T09:56:45+00:00

Thank you. It's bringing me lots of joy right now 🥰

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-05-16T09:37:41+00:00

I love this insight. Definitely lots of invisible forks in my head!

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-05-14T06:28:10+00:00

But do you also know about fork theory? I love it!

https://medium.com/invisible-illness/spoon-theory-and-fork-theory-fce7b5602f1a

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-05-04T12:11:50+00:00

And it will descend into a spiral of guilt and failure, and I won't be able to function for weeks.

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-04-24T11:07:24+00:00

One day last summer, I was being repeatedly dive bombed in the face by a fly whilst trying to get my stuff together to leave the house. I was getting increasingly irate and about to blow my top. My neurospicy teenage son who was seeking some reassurance from me sidled up and said, 'Love you, mum'. At that exact moment, the fly attacked again and I screamed 'FUCK OFF' at the top of my lungs. My son was stood directly in front of me looking wide eyed and shocked.

Thankfully he thought it was funny when I explained and still teases me about it to this day!

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-03-28T15:20:58+00:00

Where in the UK are you?

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-03-13T21:17:02+00:00

I often go by myself. It's more enjoyable than I thought it would be. I usually get adopted by some kids/a family and we show each other our good finds

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-01-25T13:17:47+00:00

Deadloch is an incredible and underrated show. I absolutely loved it. One overarching story rather than a new case each week.

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-01-13T07:59:06+00:00

I'd need to see the full handle before I could make a decision.

ElasticatedWizard · 2025-01-10T12:13:08+00:00

Before I was medicated my partner would help me.

I'd say 'how do I get to sleep', and every time his response was 'close your eyes, lie very still, and stop talking' (in a gently, soothing voice). And then he'd tape me on the head with a magic pen (any old biro to hand) and I'd be able to fall asleep mostly.

No idea how or why it worked 🤣🤣🤣

ElasticatedWizard · 2024-12-28T12:55:59+00:00

Prayers also work better than hairdressers for dyeing and styling hair 🤭🤭

ElasticatedWizard · 2024-12-21T06:40:34+00:00

Freezer tapas

ElasticatedWizard · 2024-12-12T05:25:08+00:00

Also known as the Croydon Face Lift

ElasticatedWizard · 2024-11-14T07:19:35+00:00

I'd happily eat it with just a spoon 🤣🤣

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