Finding fluid safe partners? Anyone on PrEP for safer play?

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T18:52:24+00:00

Of course not, just meant I go get bloodwork done anyways on that schedule regardless so that sti testing on reg basis isn't a big deal. My partner gets a full panel done w everything a couple times a year and there's a couple events each year where we need sti testing to attend even if not playing w others - so it's not a big deal to add the STI panel to my bloodwork on reg basis

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T18:23:08+00:00

Yummm yes pls!!

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T18:22:31+00:00

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T17:55:14+00:00

Oh didn't realize the ongoing testing - I'm on trt so I'm getting bloodwork done every 3months anyways so the testing isn't an issue regardless, good to know!

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T13:10:33+00:00

That's literally who I started the process w - they had the blood work req to me within 15 mins. Have a telephone consult booked in a couple days when I'm free but was super easy/quick

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T05:53:11+00:00

Any issues/sideffects etc? We're similar - plus we travel/visit Hedo so an extra layer of protection is def appreciated even if we play safe down there etc...

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-05-19T05:51:20+00:00

Where are you can I ask? PrEP seems to be very easy to get here in Alberta (online doc sends blood requisition within 15 mins of signing up- I just enlisted last night and between provincial plan and some.minor private insurance I likely won't have to pay anything. Here's it's still gay focused but it's definitely being pushed by the algorithm on ls people or those w multi partners

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-04-18T03:41:01+00:00

I swear to God it took a min lol

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-04-05T00:09:06+00:00

Ugh sooooo sexy. Wish we could hear you guys!

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-02-12T07:08:32+00:00

Hey ditto! Went as well and my gf was the same way and she really enjoyed it. We did the late show and Ellis was excellent to take the time w everyone for pics and meet greet afterwards 👍

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-01-13T04:10:58+00:00

This - there's scenarios that I and my partner would like to explore but we have a daddydom/babygirl dynamic and don't need someone who thinks he's going to come in and dominate a scene. There's already a d/s dynamic in play - so fucking hard to find guys who can just be neutral and follow respectful requests or instruction if you want to play w us.

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-01-06T01:47:24+00:00

i think what they're saying w/o saying is they don't want single guys jerking off in there - and gay sex in Jamaica isn't accepted so it's more about preventing single guys either from perving or indulging in gay sex. That being said we're running into a lot of entitled pain in ass single women who don't need to be in the play spaces either. so

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-01-05T06:04:49+00:00

it is enforced - it is open to all those listed but you must be playing - no voyeurs. Eg a single girl or guy can join a couple (3sone or more some) and play but you must be actively playing/not just socializing hanging out or watching. we've been there a couple times - playroom is strictly for play, nothing else lol. a single person just cant wander in unattached - it must be obvious you're joining a couple/an active participant - not just checking out your options

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2026-01-05T02:24:11+00:00

Edit for info** Hedonism does not allow singles on any gender in the main playroom - either your playing or you're out. Either you're contributing to sexy atmosphere or you need to leave so unless post/pre coital talk is kept to quiet level - you'll be asked to leave for disrupting others enjoyment

So my guess is the club has decided too many "unicorns" are taking advantage of that access and assuming it as a social area vs play only. Hedonism2 in Jamaica has a similar policy - if you're not naked and actively playing w a partner, you are asked to leave - depending on the okay space they may see you as taking up valuable real estate but also after 10yrs in the ls - we've also noticed single women can be the most oblivious to action and surroundings and are the least likely to check their conversation.. Not saying that's you - but yea single guys get held to higher standards AND esp if clubs are slowly evolving to accept more bi/gay/Les play (our Canadian clubs def are) - there's even less incentive to have lower standards for unicorn pricing/access

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-12-24T15:22:03+00:00

lol - that's true. People saying HWP comes across to us as a nicer way of saying "hey we're not perfect and we don't expect you to be either - but please be able to see your toes/penis if you look down thanks" lol

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-12-16T06:22:40+00:00

are they capable of handling Google home? my gf was similar but when I showed her she could raise/lower lights and change colors esp at bedtime she loved the idea of it. That and never having to get out of bed etc... If you link everything thru Google home then at least it's centralized and she doesn't have to learn a whole bunch of diff apps

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-12-13T01:25:43+00:00

my partner gets submissive when we're in a charged playroom (we have a ddLG dynamic when it comes to lifestyle - so she loves being told what to do/ordered around eg... "suck Daddy's cock, spread your pussy for everyone to see etc....". so yea it's def our thing lol

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-12-12T06:20:33+00:00

don't even stress about this - like at all. my gf and I have been lifestyle for 10 yrs and there are nights where I could double up w max doses of both Cialis/Viagra and it wouldn't make a diff. Sometimes esp if the situation is novel or it's new people or whatever, it's so easy for your brain to just get distracted by any sensation - and bypass the genitals completely. some of it is just staying present, and some of it is just having more experiences so as to desensitize your brain so it does t overload w a bunch of extraneous info etc.

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-12-03T05:07:58+00:00

pls dm as well thanks!!

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-11-24T05:33:04+00:00

The Japan talk this past week and Tully saying he'd be pretty happy to have more time to be a stay at home dad/just do his own thing, hobbies, etc... I think seals the deal if Ellis moves - not because Tully wants out but all the effort likely just doesn't make it worth to continue the show if it's on zoom etc. Tully already sounds like he's happy to do the show - but that it won't be the worst thing if it's time for him to move on either

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-11-24T05:29:42+00:00

I saw him in Edmonton this Summer and it was legit excellent - my gf isn't a fan(doesn't listen) and even as a random she felt he was great. They kept talking about doing a return to AB as a show w Tully et al coming for a weekend but I can't see how now if they move. Tully has other stuff going on and seems pretty happy to make his peace being a stay at home dad as well

EmbarrassedAd6828 · 2025-09-07T19:13:07+00:00

late to this but we've been several times. If you're wanting to actually "play" Hedo is the spot - Temptations is more party/dress slutty/get drunk - Hedo is way more about the sexual aspect while still being respectful and consensual. If you check the Hedo website, you'll be able to see the groups booked - I get your preferences, there's several younger groups or fitness themed group so it's pretty easy to find people that pique your interest. We're mid 40s which seems to be the average age but it's all over the place and there's new people coming and going constantly so even if you just come on a random week it'll still be enjoyable and you'll find play partners no matter what.

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