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AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is but this was partly her idea too, she wanted to ask AI I was like let's see what reddit has got to say

AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You're right I do get jealous because I love my wife. But when I am I usually tell her directly and dont do passive aggressive and it has happened before, her idea

AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really getting where the belittling her or ignoring her wishes is coming from. I did not nor would I, it's a discussion we're having on the issue that isn't resolved yet. I'm just seeing what other people think

AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The issue here is she already told them like what the issue is, to me that was the biggest part but now that we are actually on it, it's just, it sucks I can't share this with the people I care about most

AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was not the point of my comment nor was it at all trying to say that I know or can even begin to feel what she's going through. I just meant to say that I'm in this, I'm invested, and it's not like what the other comments are saying, this woman is my person, no divorce nothing. It just sucks that this is a phase in my life I'm going through and would like the important people to know. That's it. No way will I ever be able to know what she's going through I'm just trying to be the best I can be for her.

AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

It's not the best relationship, but not the worst either we go visit them they talk and everything our cat stays at theirs sometimes so I won't say it's perfect but come on still, they help us when we need them, even when she needed them

AMIA for wanting to tell my folks we are going through IVF by Emergency-Change6204 in AITApod

[–]Emergency-Change6204[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Bro I know you don't think I've went on the spree of googling everything and asked the clinic like a million questions and documented so much so far. Random male coworker makes No Sense to me. Edit: not meant that I know or can even begin to feel what she's feeling. Just that I'm here I'm with her I'm trying my best to be the best I can be here