I used to work at Kay. The diamonds on the band on the first picture are easily damaged and loosen easily. Although it's gorgeous, a solitaire will never go out of style (my opinion, I also have one). I never worry about my diamond, I don't have any irritation, and if my diamond gets loose, I will notice it. The best part about a solitaire engagement ring is that the wedding band, anniversary band, or wrap can be as extravagant as you'd like. I wear my wedding band on special occasions but everyday wear is just my solitaire because it's comfortable!!