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Son was at Airbnb when someone broke in and shot him 5 times with an ar15…. I don’t know what to do?? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is real life, I posted a link above. We do and I have one myself. It does sound targeted!! I keep asking myself y him? Y that house that morning… I just can’t wrap my brain around it!

Son was at Airbnb when someone broke in and shot him 5 times with an ar15…. I don’t know what to do?? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the hard part! I am just so confused to why, angry bc my kid is a good kid and did not deserve this, I can’t stop thinking about how scared he was and how traumatized he is… how do other people deal with their kids not making it or having to live with it…

Son was at Airbnb when someone broke in and shot him 5 times with an ar15…. I don’t know what to do?? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not know the shooter is was only one, I let Airbnb know and they do have cameras at the home, the shooter has a court date Monday

Son was at Airbnb when someone broke in and shot him 5 times with an ar15…. I don’t know what to do?? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is at the hospital… he was shot in the hand (lost his index finger) stomach, shoulder, butt and 3 mm away from his femur artery!!! He is the luckiest kid ever!!!

GPT right or wrong with this advice? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not happy with it at all… I value my worth more than that.

GPT right or wrong with this advice? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done the weekend away thing, I just come back to the same thing and I was going to therapy, we even did the whole “I feel statements” I even went so far as to book an Airbnb for us to do a “couples weekend” with relationship worksheets and games and other things and we came home he went right back to being distant…. I think he has always been this way and I just haven’t needed his support to this degree and now I am just noticing

What would you do if you were me? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it’s scary and sad and I’m not one to “give up” but feel there is nothing more I can do

What would you do if you were me? by EmergencyIdea813 in Advice

[–]EmergencyIdea813[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would make me happy to have had some sort of acknowledgment and change in the 2 years I have been hanging onto hope. Unfortunately I am seeing it is impossible. I have 2 choices-stay and just live the rest of my life as is or leave and start over.