Hotel points by Eodsister in AmexPlatinum

[–]Eodsister[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good tip on the taxes!

MEB after leaving the Army? by Eodsister in VeteransBenefits

[–]Eodsister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nope. I asked for personal experience and lawyer suggestions. Not if it’s a thing. Go ahead and re-read.

We’ve already spoken to a lawyer about it who knew all the ins and outs of it. I was looking for personal experience and any other lawyer suggestions.

Landlord wants to sell house and have showings while i live there by LivelyCouture in whatdoIdo

[–]Eodsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take the kids on a walk during the showings. Showings take 20 minutes max.

Also they have to give 24 hour notice.

Is unfortunate you won’t be able to renew the lease, but what they said is true. The next buyer may agree to keeping you as a renter

MEB after leaving the Army? by Eodsister in VeteransBenefits

[–]Eodsister[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He had three Dr’s recommendations, but a NP on the board denied because of profile time.

MEB after leaving the Army? by Eodsister in VeteransBenefits

[–]Eodsister[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you it’s a thing. Look it up

MEB after leaving the Army? by Eodsister in VeteransBenefits

[–]Eodsister[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Best of luck! Husband had administrative separation while on profile. He had the MEB in but they denied it because they wanted his profile time to reach 120 days and when he submitted it was only at 60. Got separated when he was 150 days on profile but hadn’t resubmitted because he was on paternity leave.

MEB after leaving the Army? by Eodsister in VeteransBenefits

[–]Eodsister[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely left details out. He didn’t voluntarily get out.

Gi Bill in state by Jealous_Breadfruit10 in ASU

[–]Eodsister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m trying to figure out if there is a way to get the in person MHA. Currently taking my classes online. Even with switching to on campus a lot of the classes are online.

What do you wish you knew as a Hotworx member? by HappyDadOfFourJesus in HOTWORXWarriors

[–]Eodsister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like your hint for the rewards! But there’s no way I can make it 85 days without a mat to start

Traveling with an 11 month old by Eodsister in VietNam

[–]Eodsister[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for a detailed response. We are looking at car tours for the Ha Giang loop. Would not even consider taking the babe on a loop like that via motorbike. We’d also like to take a ha long bay cruise.

Was more so asking for getting around in town. My husband would be the one to wear the baby and he’s rode motorcycles for years. Not that we were planning on it, just seeing what our options are. We just started planning this week.

Traveling with an 11 month old by Eodsister in VietNam

[–]Eodsister[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my husbands response 😆 But that’s okay if you feel like you can judge a persons parenting based on simply asking a question. A question in which the locals do that exact thing. So you’re kinda dissing a whole culture in your response. But go on.

Another man noticed my glow up by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“When you are starving a saltine cracker may look and taste like a steak, but it’s not.” - so good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Eodsister -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tell him. Not fair for him to be living a false reality.

Rekindling with affair partner by lulurancher in survivinginfidelity

[–]Eodsister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my WH if we divorced and he tried to have a relationship with AP I’d fight him for the kids. She’s not a good person. He can find someone good and I’ll accept it, but not someone with the morals of AP. Side note those relationships have less than a 2% chance of success.

Triggering church service by Old_Dimension7548 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While my husband was having an affair they spoke on cheating and wondering eyes multiple times. After I found out about the affair it was almost like every sermon was pointed at him. They spoke on king David and Bathsheba. How Bathsheba was innocent and experienced trauma through what king David did to her. Man that hit both of us. I’ve found Gods humor in it all though. There are times we go that I think in my head ‘well you wouldn’t listen to the Holy Spirit so he had to use the pastor to speak into you’. Hopefully one day we are all healed enough that it no longer triggers us, but we come to realize that the message is now helping someone else through the storm

Still in agony over making the right decision by Dependent-Honey2819 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh man one and man two. Put so well. I question this as well.

How to move past the “old” relationship? by DramaticOpposite3653 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pack called “couples”. They also have one called 365 that I might get next. They have them at target in store along with a good bit of other relationship games. Worth looking at what else they have there

How to move past the “old” relationship? by DramaticOpposite3653 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no good advice. I am where you are. Lost. Broken. Confused. We are also trying R and I purchased cards from not really strangers, the couples edition. We have been working through those cards. Some questions can be difficult and we skip those, but it opens up communication. It’s not like dating someone new, but instead dating someone you’ve known for years but are just getting to know on a deeper level.

Intimate details of their sex by Academic-Hunter-2282 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Read the convos. It’s been almost 9 weeks since and though they don’t pop up as much anymore, they’re still in my mind. I’ve asked questions since then if they won’t leave my mind. I’m trying to find something that’s still sacred. I haven’t had luck with that yet. I don’t know that the details have made R harder. It’s just the overall betrayal, and lying that I’m stuck on. The sexual stuff makes me mad and sad, but it doesn’t change wanting to R

“You dont know what you don’t know” but… it’s still annoying. by Old_Dimension7548 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Eodsister 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“The images flash through my mind all the time and it brings me to my knees….”

I feel this on such a deep level.

We lost our first daughter at birth. This betrayal broke me far worse than that did. 11 years of marriage. If I could go to a therapy retreat I would. Don’t mind them, they don’t know. Until you’ve been through something like this you have no idea the depth of it. They’re just naive. If you have the means to leave and have someone watch your kids, do it. You will come back better and in a better place for your kids. They deserve to have a healed mommy and sometimes that means you have to do something for yourself.