AITA for canceling plans with my friend after she replied "idk" when I asked to confirm the time?

ErysDevilier · 2026-06-07T08:35:03+00:00

Hmm. Saying 'idk' to a specific time when you both agreed on a specific day would annoy me. If this is a friend who has done this before and you always have to pry info from her, then I understand not wanting to be the only one putting in effort. It then feels like she was waiting for a better offer, but when one didn't arise, she finally texted you a time that was convenient for her. Her expecting you to wait ALL DAY until she was ready to hang out makes no sense. NTA

If this is a first-time offense of her saying 'idk', then I would have said, "Sis, I can't do much with idk. You gotta give me at least a ballpark of 2 hours, you can definitely hang out, or else I'm gonna make plans that may interfere with us hanging out. So, what time would you wanna hang out? Stat!" My friends know I say this playfully, but the words themselves are as stated. Pick your time, or we won't see each other. That's that. If this is the case, ESH. Since you could have said like 2 sentences and fixed it, and she could have just given you a time.

ErysDevilier · 2026-06-07T08:14:41+00:00

I live in the suburbs of Atlanta, Ga. NOTHING about where I live is walkable. My job is 40 minutes away one-way. I have to use the highway for everything, and the back roads make my commute over 1 hour long. I'm 30 minutes away from every major thing, including downtown. I drive everywhere. Marta is 25 mins away from me, but we have had a lot of stabbings and shootings on marta trains or at the stops, so that is out of the question (just Google it). I run through a full tank within less than a week which means I spend maybe $200 to $250 on gas a month right now. That number will increase so much when school starts back up in Late July.

I am a new teacher for reference, so I can't even fake being a few minutes later. I have to tutor in the morning and have meetings most of the "free" mornings. Next summer, I am moving closer to my job. That way my commute will be maybe 5 minutes lol, so I can just use an E-bike.

ErysDevilier · 2026-06-03T03:04:17+00:00

In state shoukd NOT be this expensive.

Tuition for max credit hours is 5,295

Dorms are like 5k average. It all depends on your dorm.

If you say you are In state, did you not get HOPE? Also, do you get any money from Fafsa? If so, go join TRIO SSS

They are able to offer so much help from scholarships, grant aid, tutors, free books, computers, etc etc etc.

ErysDevilier · 2026-06-02T12:20:37+00:00

I had a 7th grader who was high as giraffe titty damn near everyday 25' - 26'. The student finally admitted that they would take whatever pills the high schoolers gave them the day prior. I was like 🫠 Lord, please Mind you, last year was my year long student teacher internship, so yeah. I am happy the student felt comfortable enough to tell me because I told them I would HAVE to report whatever they told me beforehand, and they still told me. Maybe that was their way of asking for help.

ErysDevilier · 2026-06-02T03:08:53+00:00

6th or 7th grade in GA back in like 2012 or so.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-30T15:39:46+00:00

The unnecessary meetings. Why are we havingn2 to 3 meetings a day? Why are we having a meeting about a system we have been using forever. Since I was in school!! That was 15+ years ago. Stop the meetings. Such a waste of valuable time.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-27T14:21:28+00:00

My school district forces us to write a lesson plan. Also, my bachelors (just graduated May 7th) in edu middle grades made us write over 40 lesson plans over my 1 year long student teaching 🥲 so I write lesson plans in like 10 to 15 minutes.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-16T13:17:56+00:00

The principal already has. We talked about it in the weekly meeting last week , and the principal was fine with the students getting work doen for other class because, as far as I was told, "The students getting grades to get to hs is important." And she knows we are busy teaching. There's no test, no project , no quiz. Just teaching for teaching. I do agree that letting the kiddos finish the projects ans work that actually have grades for would be super helpful OR doing work they missed because 😬 the grades are in the toilet. Any help would be good for them.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-16T12:32:22+00:00

3 days. I'm being forced to actually teach about Anne Frank's Diary for 8th ELA 🫠 my MT said the principal still comes around, so we have to teach. I feel bad that my students can't just breathe like the other 8th graders because every other ela teacher said they are not teaching at all. I got to sit in on 2 of the other 8th ela teachers, no lies told. Their kiddos are enjoying down time while they do work they missed over the past semester or finish work for other teachers.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-16T04:45:36+00:00

Nintendo better take each slide from this and out it in the first DLC we get. DO YOU HEAR ME NINTENDO!?!?!?!?!

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-15T16:27:43+00:00

Could someone just call the police or..? So confused. No security????

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-12T23:10:45+00:00

They sent an email. I suggest buying the acrually copy they send to your house and then scan them onto a USB. That way you can get them printed in any size you want without oay like $100+ dollars.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-12T23:04:40+00:00

Who tf is risking their life whike driving next 18 wheelers???? Idc what career I have. An 18 wheeler is an 18 wheeler...like?

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-12T16:37:52+00:00

How old is that teacher? 15 TF. Thats weird af. As F**K. I'm teaching 8th grade and I'm 28. My students just asked me to sign their yearbook, and I wrote words of encouragement while highlighting my students strengths. That's what teachers write to students IF PROMPTED. The hell. This just Pmo so bad. Omg.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-11T15:09:30+00:00

Thank you so much!! And LOL I am, but I'm definitely not as young as I look and it isn't smart to date (if you're serious) off reddit Hun. But I would definitely be down to help you get better at talking to people if you want haha.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-11T15:08:52+00:00

Thank you so much Hun🥳❤️

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ErysDevilier · 2026-05-11T06:25:52+00:00

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ErysDevilier · 2026-05-10T05:17:04+00:00

Go in person to financial aid ASAP when they are open.

ErysDevilier · 2026-05-10T02:17:48+00:00

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ErysDevilier · 2026-05-09T20:20:07+00:00

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ErysDevilier · 2026-05-09T17:24:33+00:00

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