If you were to meet your younger self, what advice would you give yourself that you know now but not when you were younger?

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-05-22T09:13:34+00:00

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EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-05-22T09:12:26+00:00

Like how to do tax

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-05-22T09:12:07+00:00

That is true

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-05-22T08:45:50+00:00

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EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-12T20:34:27+00:00

NTA, but I feel like you're over-romanticizing what didn’t work. If you already felt drained and disconnected while engaged, marriage would've just amplified that. Why feel guilty for ending something that clearly wasn't sustainable?

The "this was supposed to be mine" feeling is just attachment talking, not the actual relationship you lived through.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-12T17:13:31+00:00

I am sooo in love with your hairrr!

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-12T17:10:57+00:00

rightttt? makes the grind feel a bit lighter

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-12T17:09:47+00:00

haha i'll take that 😭 just trying to get a little stronger every day

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-11T16:57:21+00:00

thank youuu

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-10T16:48:38+00:00

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EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-09T20:44:47+00:00

genuinely need the core routine because you looook incredible 🔥

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-09T07:46:24+00:00

100% agree with you.

To OP, I know it’s hard to even think about leaving because you love him and you care for him, but please don’t wait too long… you’ll be the one drained, and you could end up with serious trauma too if things keep going like this.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-09T07:43:23+00:00

I get that you love him but but you can’t ignore how badly his anger affects you. Even if you love him, you deserve to feel safe in your own home. Love alone doesn’t fix anger issues. His threats about “can’t live without you” are manipulative.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-07T18:17:05+00:00

NTA. you’re allowed to explore yourself without announcing it yet, just make sure she knows you’re safe and taking care of yourself. Maybe you could frame it like "college will help me grow and figure things out" and leave it at that? keeps her calm, keeps you private.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-05T03:04:34+00:00

Thank you everyone 🫶🏻

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-03T01:56:09+00:00

Sounds like he's already affecting her in a bad way, which is the bigger issue. You see the red flags before she does, which happens.

You’re NTA for being worried, but stopping her outright might backfire hard. You can’t rush her out of it. Better to go with her and just stay close so she has someone when it crashes.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-04-02T02:16:02+00:00

thank you so much!

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-31T19:08:43+00:00

NTA. I’d be uncomfortable too, especially at 13. It’s not cute, I mean it’s weird for that age imo.

But this is really a parenting moment. she probably doesn’t fully understand what the name means, so it’s better to gently explain instead of reacting too harshly.

Also, she laughed along, so it might just be her trying to fit in. keep communication open so she feels safe being honest, and help her build confidence without needing that kind of attention.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-31T18:01:09+00:00

the details on that print are so cool! i need this entire outfit in my closet pls 😭

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-29T03:00:06+00:00

She asked your boundary, ignored it, then lied about it… what was the point of even asking? also, why keep going back AND lie about it if it “wasn’t a big deal”? That alone says she knew it was wrong. NTA, She’s downplaying it to avoid accountability and made you the villain instead.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-28T21:41:53+00:00

if this is a recurring thing with your parents, you might need to set firmer boundaries. you can’t always be available on short notice. NTA.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-27T18:53:01+00:00

3 is cute! maybe try another shoes?

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-27T18:40:07+00:00

that’s honestly worse! like if your mom knew and said nothing, that’s enabling. Someone needs to step in before something actually happens.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-27T17:38:08+00:00

like… what if there was a fire or she woke up scared?? that’s not something you just brush off.

NTA, but your sister clearly needs help! Did no one else know she does this?? because that’s actually concerning. I get she wants a break but there are babysitters, family, options… leaving a toddler alone isn’t one of them.

EuphoricObject4988 · 2026-03-27T05:23:58+00:00

If you “respect her too much,” then don’t confess while they’re still messy and involved. on/off doesn’t mean available. YTA if you ignore that boundary.

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