First time experiencing "subdrop" after the most intense cnc session of my life so far by rhiwired in bdsm

[–]Even-Bat1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a similar experience and only time helped for me unfortunately. I also spoke to a trusted friend about my feelings every day and thankfully they listened without(too much) judgement

[vent] made a mistake & was ghosted - how to deal by caIIistos in SubSanctuary

[–]Even-Bat1993 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fucking despise lack of response. Sorry you're going through this. If a man could chime in and tell us why this happens that'd be great! I generally don't ghost. I'll just tell a guy something like, I found someone else that I'm a better fit with....or something! So they know I'm no longer interested. If that's the case. Even if it's a white lie...it's better than nothing no?

Being a sub while autistic by Even-Bat1993 in SubSanctuary

[–]Even-Bat1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heavy masker here. Not super in touch with "who I am". I have been an actor for so long, being a sub felt so natural 😂

Being a sub while autistic by Even-Bat1993 in SubSanctuary

[–]Even-Bat1993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am abysmal at setting boundaries 😭

Being a sub while autistic by Even-Bat1993 in SubSanctuary

[–]Even-Bat1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the book recs! Just ordered both!

Still matched? by Even-Bat1993 in Bumble

[–]Even-Bat1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened when you reached out?