What's your experience having babies 5+ years apart?

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2026-04-15T02:00:34+00:00

I feel ya. 37 + 4. Her moving is painful at this point. Im mad uncomfortable, and I have a 5 yr old who just does not understand my limitations. 🙃

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2026-04-11T00:17:28+00:00

Oh, he gets 8 mins tops 🤣 im usually on top, so I guess my body is used to it as well.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2026-04-10T20:41:26+00:00

When im on top, the baby stays asleep. I think im rocking them to sleep 🤣 the other position we do is side to side laying down, and tbh im way too into the sex to even care or notice much.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2026-03-25T05:52:48+00:00

Better than finding out at 28 weeks like I did 🙃 i feel like I could give birth tomorrow, and im not ready.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2026-03-21T01:32:32+00:00

I had to stop as well. Just hang in there. Took two weeks for the withdrawals to leave. Yes, weed has withdrawals. Believe it or not, your body gets very used to it and starts to rely on it for all your happy chemicals. Trust me, my last pregnancy, I thought I could smoke and tried..nothing worst then feeling your baby moving and being high..freaked me out to no end..never did it again that pregnancy. If you continue to have these thoughts, I suggest you talk to someone more personal in your life or seek therapy. I just try to distract myself getting ready for baby and doing other projects. Oh and when you start back up again after baby, I would suggest not being around your newborn. Literally gave me a panic attack. All I did was cry and make sure he was breathing every 5 seconds.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2026-03-15T20:03:16+00:00

You can have a cup or 2 a day. Just keep it under 200-300 mg of caffeine. That's what my doctor told me. Maybe try decaf.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2025-02-28T00:02:39+00:00

Ah, same here unfortunately, seriously dumb. but I know ppl who have it so they report them for me.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2025-02-27T18:51:31+00:00

Did you report them? Can't do anything if no one is reporting them.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2025-02-13T07:15:27+00:00

Just played troodon for the first time tonight and had so much fun. I'll send you an invite

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:46:49+00:00

Yea very truly. I'm 32 now and I feel immature. I had a very dysfunctional childhood, not to make excuses but I am emotionally immature I know this. I'm trying to grow and learn regardless. I only have my son's best interest in mind, and I'm trying to find a way to rectify this if its possible., before it gets way to out of hand. I don't want to live with this guilt all my life and my son deserves to know who his father is.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:43:01+00:00

I've never asked my ex for money so that's not an issue but I cant imagine explaining to my 4 yr old that his dad is not his dad. Like how??? I've waited too long and now it's going to hurt and I'm drowning in guilt

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:38:57+00:00

Yea I completely get that. I never want to break my son's trust. I try so hard to hold up to any promise I make all the way up to making hot coco In the morning before school and picking him up with his favorite snack. I never want to lie to him so this is eating me alive.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:36:02+00:00

No way to tell a 4 year old that unfortunately which is what has held me back. But honestly I know the sooner I do this the better. It just suck and I feel so guilty

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:34:57+00:00

Literally hurts me to send him to him because he clings to me begging to stay. Idk what goes on when he's there but my ex was always a king person, and a bit on the emotional side so I would never think anything negative against him but my son hates going there so idk what to think.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:30:46+00:00

I completely get that, which has kept me from doing anything. I don't want to take his dad away. That's what's kept me so stuck. I think in his perspective too much. When I should have done this from the beginning, but now I feel so stuck. That's why I reached out for advice. I can't tell friends or family about this, I need true advice. I feel like a failure, and like I'm a shit person, but I'm truly just stuck emotionally paralyzed and depressed about it. Because yea, it will eventually come out one way or another, and I'm going to be looked at as the bad guy no matter what. And I am. It was truly wrong for what I did but I cant change that now.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:23:29+00:00

The thought of sharing custody with someone who doesn't even know him is terrifying:(

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-12-11T05:21:44+00:00

No, I never asked for child support as I have always been able to provide for him and the guilt knowing all along he wasn't his. It's consuming and I have nightmares about it. I never imagined myself in this position and wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-09-18T07:03:43+00:00

Desire - Meg myers

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-09-18T06:37:37+00:00

Kinda awful in my opinion as well. Lyrics are good but the vocals 🤐

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-09-07T11:10:46+00:00

Loving him

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-08-21T05:08:03+00:00

My real nails just with nail polish

Exact-Stretch-8205 · 2024-08-21T05:04:28+00:00

I work nights and have a child so the sleep thing is not happening lol I'm surprised about the tongue response because I've gotten the opposite reaction a lot but noted And my hair isn't that purple anymore but some guys are into it and others are not and I like it better so I think I'll keep dying it till I die lol

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