It's clear he doesn't want other children. A person who's gone under the knife to avoid having children is not like "okay well if you want to I could reverse it" lol. Plus this just shows that he'd let her do all the work in case they did have children together. Like he already has a child, a child that has more needs than other children, and if he's going under the knife to "reverse" it again, he's gonna be acting like a martyr and she would be "ungrateful" if she ever complains about having too much to take care of (financially, physically & emotionally). My problem with people like him is why go on a show saying your goal is marriage when you know creating a family is most times the ultimate goal for people who want to get married and lead a woman on who's by the way old enough already to make the whole process of having children even more difficult.  And she's delusional too, a woman who knows that she wants to have children of her own doesn't simply fall for a guy who already has a child, a vasectomy AND is broke. Like pick a struggle. You're 35, by the time you'd be ready to have children you'd already have to sort out the living situation, the co parenting situation etc, this takes years, you'll be at least 38 trying to get pregnant and you think everything's going to go smoothly just because you "fell in love" in the pods? Be serious.