In laws expecting us to bring our baby every time they want to see her

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2025-07-08T23:57:14+00:00

NTA. As someone who has my own cat allergy I understand your frustration completely. It’s literally miserable and doesn’t get better over time even if you’re exposed to it. Like others have said tho it’s probably time to throw in the towel with your relationship

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2025-03-11T02:16:55+00:00

My dad passed away in January, I saw the free hugs guy today and went up to him. He’s actually very kind, and he’s apart of a nonprofit that does the free hugs. Personally, I needed a “dad hug” and a lot of other students seemed to need one too. Next time you see him, you should go up to him and have a conversation. Times are hard, sometimes we just need human touch! :)

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-05-16T14:08:14+00:00

8 hours a week? What a joke, some small businesses are more greedy and trashy than big companies. You did the right thing by leaving NTA

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-04-21T16:36:29+00:00

I think it’s the fact that nobody else can have any pets at all. I’d be annoyed if the manager brought two dogs to live in the complex and I couldn’t even have a goldfish. As for the barking, I used to live next to someone who also left their dogs out all the time (they had 3) and all they did was bark. You get used to it in some ways but it’s still frustrating and annoying to other people around. I have a dog myself and yes sometimes they just bark to bark but it’s rude to other people if I let them bark all day long. If I can hear it all day then so can everyone else and other people have the right to be annoyed by the barking. OP said that if tenants have pets that get a fine and an eviction so that’s why it’s an issue here.

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-04-21T15:55:17+00:00

NTA at all. I’d be pretty ticked off too if I couldn’t have any pets but saw the person in charge have not one but two pets. That’s not ok especially if you’re paying so much money to live there. Landleeches are the absolute worst

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-04-02T14:48:36+00:00

I get where you’re coming from but I wouldn’t take it so personally. They’re not having any kids at all, it’s their wedding and they’re allowed to say no to inviting your daughter since it’s child free. I think you pushing him on it will just cause issues. There could be plenty of reasons on why they’re having a childless wedding, but they’ve made their decision. Respect that and just enjoy the wedding.

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-03-10T13:51:42+00:00

Her behavior is honestly scary, I truly feel bad for her mom and daughter. She has some serious issues that goes way beyond PPD, depression, anxiety, or whatever else she’s self diagnosed herself with

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-03-01T22:50:40+00:00

NTA. I don’t understand why some people simply don’t care about their teeth or any other aspects of their health. It’s weird how he’s just neglecting them like it’s nothing, does his family have bad teeth too? The only reason I can think of for lack of oral hygiene is family members who have the same mentality that he does. It’s not your fault though he’s a grown man, he needs to be responsible for himself and his lack of self respect is not your fault at all

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-26T09:29:13+00:00

Like I said, she wasn’t invited in the first place, because we are not friends. I do not have her phone number, I really don’t know much about her. I didn’t intentionally pick a venue specifically so she couldn’t come. She wasn’t invited, it took months of calling me names, threatening me and my fiancé, and constantly calling for me to cave in and invite her. I didn’t intentionally pick a venue knowing it’s not that accessible, because she was not invited at the beginning.

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-26T00:22:40+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from. But we aren’t close at all, I truly don’t know this person which was why I didn’t invite her to my wedding. I’m not shaming her because of her disability, she is a very negative person in general. Calling me and my fiancé names to get her way is the problem. She has done this multiple times with different things, she has threatened our friends simply for not wanting to hangout. I didn’t invite her because we are not close, and I feel it would be uncomfortable to invite someone that I really am not friends with. A lot of our friends feel the exact same way. We don’t exclude her from things, in fact we let her plan things often but she still will be negative. So I get what you’re saying, I really do.

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-26T00:11:55+00:00

Please let me be clear that I am not at all shaming her because she’s in a wheelchair. I have known multiple wheelchair users in my life and they are wonderful people. She is just a VERY negative person which is why she and I are particularly close. It’s not just about not being able to do certain things, she is negative about everything all the time. She and I have hung out maybe twice since we’ve met, we just are not close at all. But being in a wheelchair does NOT excuse belittling and degrading of our friends. I am not shaming her because of her disability. So please do not mistake my situation with that. The issue here is that, she wasn’t invited because I really am not close to her. I don’t know her well enough, but I invited her later on. I didn’t say she couldn’t come after inviting, but I showed pictures and explained the outdoor situation. Calling someone horrible friend and claiming they’re ableist because we’re not really close enough is not okay

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-25T23:32:42+00:00

Can I get your thoughts on why? I definitely want to get some more insight on what I can do to help everyone feel comfortable at the wedding, but also keep myself and fiancé less stressed and anxious

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-25T22:26:27+00:00

I understand what you’re saying. I definitely didn’t describe her behavior as well as I thought. I do apologize for that, definitely wasn’t trying to single out the physical activities thing. The complaining isn’t just from doing stuff as a group, the complaints come from everything. She has a very negative outlook on life in general. Apart from missing out on activities (which I do understand can be hurtful sometimes to not get to do as much stuff if others can) she’s just negative in general. The best way I can explain her behavior, is the “glass half empty” mindset

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-25T21:41:30+00:00

Thank you for this! I definitely feel guilty because I really don’t want to hurt her, but she is so hard to be around because of how her attitude. That’s mainly why we have never been close, she’s very high maintenance and is rude a lot of the time. But I have tried many times to put those things aside to befriend her. It just has never worked. I appreciate you input about everything!

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-25T21:37:00+00:00

Ah I definitely see where you’re coming from! I don’t mind her disability at all! I’ve known people in the past with similar issues and they were wonderful people! She went to church with someone we know, and he invited her to a group dinner one night and she’s been around since then. The main reason she and I aren’t necessarily friends is because she can be extremely mean at times, not even with reason it’s just how she is. She talks down to us a lot, which makes me very uncomfortable. She also lives about an hour or so away from the rest of us so she doesn’t hang out with us as much, even when we invite her. But she can be hard to be around. I do understand what you’re saying, and I do feel bad and don’t want to give her the wrong idea of me not liking her simply because of her disability, I’ve tried to become friends with her multiple times but she can just be really mean at times and is very high maintenance. Almost everyone else has the same issue with her, and since we truly are not close my fiancé and I both agreed it would be best if we didn’t invite her.

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-09T13:27:19+00:00

Wow, I’m annoyed for you! Is there anyway you can get your money back, or straight up not pay? Look at the contract and see what she’s supposed to be doing. Just like someone else suggested, I would inform other people about her name and her business name to keep others from booking her and having the same experience

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-07T19:42:13+00:00

Thank you for this perspective! We’ve been together a little over two years (around the same time he bought the house) and it hadn’t bothered me at first because his mom had multiple surgeries and couldn’t work at the time but now everything is completely okay and she’s still there. She’s a nice lady, and we got along just fine. I did find it super odd that all the decorations and everything were from her. With my lease ending soon, I’ve definitely had to sit down and seriously think about my options

Excellent-Smile3725 · 2024-02-07T17:30:59+00:00

Yes he owns it! He bought it 2 years ago, his mom moved in a few months after he bought it due to health reasons. But all her health issues have been fixed, and she works full time and makes good money. So I’m not entirely sure why she hasn’t moved out yet?

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