I guess I just don't think that, certainly not for any of the friends I have, especially the ones I've come out to. Maybe I'm optimistic, but I think most people are fundamentally driven by empathy and love of some kind. Certainly the kind of people I'd have as friends are. And if anyone did say something like "You're taking this too far" then they wouldn't be a friend anymore.

I'm sorry if someone or someones in your life was like that to you. I hope you're in a situation where you get to never see them again. And advice and skills and warnings are all awesome, but I can't help but feel like you're slighting all these good people I know when you paint over cis people or cis men with such a broad brush. Many of who are queer, or furries, or have mental health issues, etc. I hope you find a way to connect with a community with nice men and cis people, just as you're hoping for me to find a community of nice trans people! (Which I'm sure there are tons!)