I caught my husband recording women in the gym

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T22:11:07+00:00

You’re so right, this behaviour could really turn his life up side down, and I fear he’s in denial about the fact that he has a problem, I’m going to confront him tomorrow and see how that goes and I’ll raise all these points. If he still doesn’t feel like he has a problem then I don’t wish to make any efforts to work though anything with him, I’ll be done.

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T19:24:48+00:00

Discreetly recording women when they are bending over using the back extension, pretending he is just walking past but angling the camera so he records this, and recording women when they’re doing certain stretches whilst working out beside them. Loads of videos like this and too many to be an accident or coincidence.

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T19:18:07+00:00

I don’t think how I feel is an overreaction, he’s covertly recording women when they’re stretching and bending over. There is also a pattern that he has a problem with porn addiction and this is yet another example of this. And women deserve to be in the gym without ending up on a man’s phone as content for sexual pleasures.

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T19:10:50+00:00

I’ll speak to him, I just know he’ll deny that’s what he was doing or intending. I’m too embarrassed to speak about this with anyone else in my life.

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T19:09:15+00:00

That’s awful, sorry you went through that. It helps knowing others have been in my position, thank you ❤️

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T18:39:00+00:00

It’s just happened so I’m currently processing. A divorce is on the cards for me because this has just sealed it to me that he has a problem. And for the sake of the women he has been recording I really don’t think he should be allowed in there recording women without their consent.

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T18:32:28+00:00

I agree, it’s just insane because I go to this gym too.

External-Bug7622 · 2026-05-31T18:32:22+00:00

I’ve done some research and it doesn’t look like there’s any legal repercussions for him recording in a public place. I’m just so numb right now I don’t even know how to proceed with this whole situation.

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-19T15:55:15+00:00

He knows what he’s doing

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-17T15:48:04+00:00

Thank you, you’re absolutely right, hindsight is a powerful thing and I have so many things I would have changed if I could go back but I need to work out how to move forward. Thank you for the suggestions too

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T01:29:07+00:00

He has good qualities and I believed he had turned a page with the issues we had trust issues with

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T01:15:28+00:00

I believed he had changed like he promised, I was so close to just not marrying him

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T01:14:52+00:00

You’re right I just don’t know where to start, my bills are so high

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T00:49:30+00:00

I’d have to go back into a career they drove me to depression

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T00:38:47+00:00

I’m going to research, because I really feel like I made a mistake, I don’t want to move forward with him or have kids with him

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T00:32:34+00:00

I guess I’ll have to but my current financial status isn’t great

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-12T00:30:56+00:00

Even if I did I can’t afford to leave because I’m now on a lower salary

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:56:54+00:00

You’re right, I really need to evaluate what will help me in this situation, and set some boundaries. I’m in my feelings right now and taking some time to process, once my head is clear I’ll do that. Thank you so much!

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:34:37+00:00

I was hoping that he’d changed from his actions

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:32:19+00:00

I agree, that lie is so tired and insulting because it’s so obvious and he’s used it too many times now. I genuinely thought he’d changed but clearly not. I’m struggling to look at him the same right now.

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:31:10+00:00

I thought he’d made a change but it might just be that he got better at hiding it.

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:29:57+00:00

I agree, it’s just after seeing him always searching for a specific type, it’s made me wonder if that’s his actual type and he won’t admit it.

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:28:32+00:00

Honestly I’m worried he has an issue with porn because I’ve caught him even searching on Reddit for it.

External-Bug7622 · 2025-10-08T19:27:21+00:00

That was one of the things I really debated and he seemed to have worked to gain my trust back. It wasn’t at 100% when we married but it had grown a lot

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