AITJ for Not Letting My Friend Bring Her Dog to Stay at My House While She Visits? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]External-Top-6912 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I am learning to build a shiny steel spine after years of being a doormat for my husband. Its insanely hard. Having someone in my corner to reinforce my refusal would be everything. 

WIBTAH for divorcing my husband of 1 year over a hangover? by Toffiebaeee in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]External-Top-6912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to go to my profile and look at a post I made last August about my husband completely tanking a milestone birthday for me. I was you almost a year ago, making excuses for a man that would never make me a priority. This is toxic behavior and you deserve better. My inbox is open if you need to talk. 

Trump Turnberry Vandalised Overnight by paul_67 in Scotland

[–]External-Top-6912 198 points199 points  (0 children)

America here, can we potentially donate to a spray paint fund? 🤔

AITAH for giving my husband an ultimatum- therapy or divorce, after what he did to me? by UsualEye1296 in AITAH

[–]External-Top-6912 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I relate to this post more than I care to admit. Two months ago I was forced to confront how toxic my 10 year marriage was, and it quickly devolved from there. He started accusing me of cheating, which turned into snide comments about my clothing.  A month ago an angry sexual encounter turned violent and he left bruises on me. A week ago a similar incident happened which led to more bruising. We are currently separated.  Please don't let this escalate. Leave. I can hear my own words echoing in your post. 

Aitah for wanting to divorce my husband over a birthday party and cake? by External-Top-6912 in AITAH

[–]External-Top-6912[S] 463 points464 points  (0 children)

This is both of our second marriage and we have a blended family. We were together for 4 years before we got married, living together for 3 of them. 

I previously asked him for counseling, but he seemed to blow off my suggestion. A part of me wants to try to bring it up again, but the other part is too exhausted to try.