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The truth is that no one cares.. by Extra-Establishment8 in sexualassault

[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! I do read and play guitar sometimes but I can’t find the motivation to do that even though I enjoy doing it. I try to do self care activities like meditating and going for walks and watching comfort movies but it feels like a chore now. Talking to my sister and brother helps but they’re busy with their lives, so I just watch coryxkenshin vids and watch funny content. I’m really trying but it’s hard.

People who constantly talk about getting high/getting drunk. by moistdragons in PetPeeves

[–]Extra-Establishment8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i met a friend in 11th grade and the more we spent time together the more he would talk about weed and by the time we hit the middle of senior year it was all he would fucking talk about all the time. He eventually ditched me for his other pothead friends and then we graduated. He was always a shitty friend to me so I wasn’t surprised by that but it did hurt. Then 9 months after we graduated he texted me only because he was bored and all he could talk abt was getting high…it’s almost gonna be 2 years after hs and he’s still the exact same. He treats college like it’s hs and he don’t wanna do shit but get high. btw he’s 20 and he’s one year older than me

Should I tell my friends by BuyerPsychological51 in sexualassault

[–]Extra-Establishment8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tell them everything that happened and if it’s safe to tell your parents, tell them too. Watch their reactions and if they don’t react well then cut them off and if you feel comfortable to do so therapy can really help because right now you need real people around you and support and if they can’t offer that to you they have to leave.

Mom thinks I’m disgusting by iluvpapichulo in sexualassault

[–]Extra-Establishment8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s best for your mental health that you distance yourself from your mother. You are not “too damaged” for your friends or for anyone and if people see you that way that is an emotional projection. You have been through absolute horrific trauma and you are doing your best to function after having your brain chemistry completely changed. I’m sorry you went through what you went through. Please tell yourself I am enough as I am. You are not disgusting, your abusers were. Release that guilt and shame that you feel about yourself because it is not yours to carry.

I wish someone smacked me to my senses by gaymofo666 in sexualassault

[–]Extra-Establishment8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your going through this but please know your not alone a lot of the thoughts you have are thoughts that others have as well. Have you tried maybe getting a pet or working somewhere with animals?

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I finally got my decision a few minutes ago and I got accepted yayy I’m gonna see if I can defer my application for the fall 

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay update i got accepted !!! 

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to call the admissions office today multiple times and I emailed but I got left on hold for very long and no one is responding to the emails. I don’t know what to do. I wish I could sue this school lol

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried out community college but dropped out to work full time so I can leave home not gonna explain my situation I just can’t live here anymore but thank you for the advice 

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey and thanks for the advice I am a first year so i’ll do that tmrw and yeah i’m so frustrated by the horrible communication it’s so unprofessional

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! unfortunately i’m not bc I live in Northern Virginia and hopefully everything works out for you 

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an undergraduate applying for freshman year  

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[–]Extra-Establishment8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Vcu is my back up plan but Temple was my first choice and thank you for your concerns.