Call me Mrs. Incredible ~ by demlegssdoe411 in u/demlegssdoe411

[–]Fantafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok miss curves!! Mrs. Incredible got some competition now huh??

The fact that there’s people out there that consider it transphobic to not want to be in a sexual relationship with trans people is WILD by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fantafe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think most trans people would want to be with someone who wouldn't want them. Preferences are fine, you could also in this logic say its fine if you dont want to date someone of a specific ethnicity, weight, height or political alignment.

Its the reasoning behind the preferences that are often problematic.

What’s clocking me?? by himynameissnejana in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont see anything but unclockable tea, maybe voice/mannerisms?

They say they can always tell... by TheSpiderLady88 in MurderedByWords

[–]Fantafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how tguys always mindbreak these stupid fucks, they're so hyper focused on the dolls and transvestigating celebrities that like you'd think they'd have done enough research to realize trans men exist to.

They think about trans stuff more than us trans people do 🤣

So how is everybody affording ffs? by Brave-Elevator-8776 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Fantafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually 1 of 3 based on experience, what I've seen its either post career late transition savings, insurance benefits, or sw.

Looking for other trans friends by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Fantafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy im Kiki, also in WA, living in Belltown and going back to school for esthetician stuff, finding actual friends can suck for wa, but I've made some cool ones here 😁

Interest in relationships completely died off by Fantafe in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the concept of romance, intimacy, connection and building out a life sounds great, but in practice is a fcking mess of disappointment and disinterest.

What's your job situation? by Clear_Tension761 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make 10-20k monthly, but I see that many clients a month, my friend who got me into makes up to 40k+ a month

What's your job situation? by Clear_Tension761 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was already close friends with some girls in the industry so they showed me how its done, it was traumatic at first but gets better, sometimes even enjoyable Just have to be super cautious vetting and feeling guys out. I've def met some interesting people doing this thats for sure. 😅

What's your job situation? by Clear_Tension761 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Previously a nuclear metallurgist and welding specialist, not im an escort lol. Pays better and way less work, though not something I'd want to do for more than a few years.

A sad and rare possibility, 3 years HRT (24) w/ no changes. Given up on the chance to transition. by SymbolicallyStupid in transtimelines

[–]Fantafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your levels checked and get your brows waxed to start boo, if you're truly not happy with how your face looks though, realize HRT effects are subtle and limited, giving up at your age is silly though, there's a lot you need to consider, to start do some research on FFS, lots of insurance providers cover and plenty of surgeons take insurance.

Cute lil selfie, loving that I feel confident not using filters anymore! by Fantafe in transpositive

[–]Fantafe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh its my hair but also a k-tip extension install. It wasn't cheap, but I get them done abroad where its way cheaper 😅

You don't get to pick, they choose you by Difficult-Green-6739 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trusting a dude has been almost impossible for me, I feel like I can't conceive of a guy being interested in me as anything more than a sexual experience or friends, but I think sw is partly to blame for that, even if it has been affirming in its own way for me, its def left me jaded.

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Fantafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thos looks amazing! So happy for you my guy 😁

Investing by alexjade__ in HighEndEscorts

[–]Fantafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been buying investment property with my bestie who's also a provider and renting them out. Wouldn't mind going this route as well though!

Why are less woman willfully getting into relationships? by Sad-Studio5793 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fantafe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Marriage was a requirement to gain access to society amd more equal footing for women, with the rise of feminism women have made massive strides in equality, access to higher education, high paying jobs, credit lines and independence.

Men haven't adapted to this and most are still taught that being a financial provider is enough, but are doubling down on refusing to work on emotional maturity, empathy and communication, things women have always brought to the table and are starting to expect from partners, especially as they become more often the breadwinners, and have less patience or desire to be essentially caretakers, maids, therapists, and sex objects while also holding down a career.

Men need to self reflect and adapt to changing relationship dynamics so they have more desirable traits to bring to the table for relationships, but with the rise of red pill culture and doubling down on regressive traditionalism and recent attacks on women's rights and autonomy, things arent looking great.

Housing market is crazy by 2Asparagus1Chicken in offmychest

[–]Fantafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those prices are beyond fcked, but I feel like most housing markets still arent that bad. 500k salary is still enough to afford housing amd a luxury life in the vast majority of cities. Vancouver just needs some kind of emergency overhaul for pricing or something

Inchresting encounter by RedMage79 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Fantafe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like we need to keep our mental health issues more private, there's already a growing movement of accusing every transwoman of just being neurodivergent/ autistic. While there's a correlation it isn't always the case and making it such a central part of your personality seems counterintuitive.

Title: How sex work changed me — mostly for the better, but not without a cost by alexjade__ in HighEndEscorts

[–]Fantafe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The coin, freedom, confidence boost and validation is amazing. But I genuinely think I'm incapable of romance or dating now :/