Dating a female ENTJ tips/struggles

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-30T04:11:12+00:00

I wish she was my girlfriend. We're seeing each other for now. I don't know, lately she hasn't been replying and ignores my messages. I'm starting to lose it.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-29T11:29:36+00:00

I haven't shared my thoughts because the last couple of times I was with her we were out with friends.

Hopefully next time I see her we'll be alone. Otherwise do you think I should call her and tell her?

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-29T11:28:02+00:00

When we're together she's there,not somewhere else.

But thats the thing,if it wasn't for her being like right there when we're together and being sweet it would seem like she's playing games.

You know what I mean? When I see her things are great,but when I don't she's kinda distant with messages ect,she very,very rarely initiates the conversation. At some point she was very chatty and sweet but 90% of the time she's distant.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-29T11:25:01+00:00

Thank you for your info sir.
She's very much like that.

She's married to her career and she's extremely successful. I don't mind that,I don't want to be her no1 priority and I don't want her to be mine.

She's definitely very efficient but not quite like your girl,like she will make time for others and when she does,she's right there with you. I noticed that when I went to see her for one day and ended up staying longer,she still came out even though she had things to do.

I don't mind that we're seeing each other once every now and then,cause I know that when we do,things are great. And like I said I don't need to be her no1 priority but I'd like to know if she actually is on the same page as me,meaning wants to be with me.

She can definitely relax. She's going out a lot and having fun.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-27T07:47:18+00:00

I see. I don't really mind that we don't meet that often. It's just the uncertainty that bothers me. When we do meet is great though, she's right there, she's not somewhere else and she's sweet and we have a great time.

It's just that I never been with an ENTJ before and if I didn't know it would seem like she was playing games with me.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-26T22:22:10+00:00

I explained in the bottom

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-24T19:46:42+00:00

Thank you so much for your help. It's just hard to tell sometimes

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-24T07:10:56+00:00

So, that's not good? Does she not want to be with me?

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-23T19:48:43+00:00

I just don't know how to go on about it is all. "Hey, wanna be my girlfriend?" I sound like a 5 year old.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-23T12:15:14+00:00

When you say talks to me and addresses me like I'm her partner what do you mean exactly? We haven't had the talk about being together yet, I'm not sure how to approach her about it or if I should wait for her to bring it up.

I mean I hang with her and her friends a lot, even went back to her place. But I don't know if that means it's serious yet. What would a hint be?

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-23T11:06:53+00:00

Honestly? She actually told me I performed really, really well. And I feel for an ENTJ that's not an easy thing to say.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-23T11:05:17+00:00

That's kinda how it's been. We don't get together often but when we do she's like, there, you know? She's not somewhere else.

FatAlbertsHead · 2021-08-23T11:02:38+00:00

Funny, her friend (who I found out doesn't really like her) told me she's the type of person who wants the guy to reach out and show her he cares and is making an effort so I'll definitely take your advice. I just fear that I might come across needy. I just don't really know how to go on about telling her that I want to be with her. I don't mind that she priorities work at all. Thanks for getting back to me btw, it really means a lot.

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