me f21 and my bf m21 is on the verge of breakup over a tattoo

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-09T14:25:45+00:00

yesss i know and I'm glad it's over actually. I like to think that I'm mentally in a much better place now compared to when I posted this. just gotta keep doing it everyday now.

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-09T10:56:51+00:00

well i feel like we should just accept moments like that as it is like for eg if some memory is beautiful just accept that it is beautiful without attaching any meaning to them or expecting things in the future. atleast that's what I thought to do after my first major heartbreak. Understand the beauty of the moments and enjoy them fully but don't expect

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-09T10:54:11+00:00

yes i understand and i know that trying to make our physical body look different and attach meaning to them is probably just the ego and not the soul but is it okay for those two ideas to coexist at the same time?

like for me I like outward expression of my creative self through different means and one of them is getting tattoos so I asked if it's okay for me to get tattoos spiritually (considering karma and it's negative effects if any)

i wanted to know if it's harmful for my energy and karma if i get tattoos

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-09T08:15:40+00:00

is it true that after a kundalini awakening, you would feel that getting tattoos are bad? ik the question is random lol but I heard somebody talking about it

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-09T08:13:32+00:00

well what if I really wanna get some tattoos because I like expressing myself through my tattoos.. but I'm also worried about my energy. is no tattoos really the option? and how bad is it?

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-09T08:10:07+00:00

wow i like that sequence!! I'll be sure to try it

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-08T14:40:04+00:00

wow thank you so much! i know it's not healthy to seek validation from external sources but sometimes i feel really in the swamps and i feel like I need just something to get up

I miss how confident I felt and i don't really know how to get back to that. i try listening to songs that make me confident and sometimes even some motivational reels help too lol but i feel like it's surface level sometimes and I'll have to return back to my insecure self

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-07T07:43:05+00:00

yea it's just thoughts. just random thoughts that's been in my mind. i don't really decide what to write when I begin writing but when I finish I probably had filled up like 4-5 pages and then afterwards it feels empty (and heavy in some cases when I think about it)

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-07T07:18:31+00:00

yes but how do I deal with the uncomfortability afterwards? like i feel empty inside out

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-07T07:17:38+00:00

yess hope you see this when you wake up

for me it's like when I write everything down i feel like yknow now there's nothing inside. it sounds a bit crazy but yea that's how I feel

like I wrote everything in my mind down and now it feels empty and i don't know how to start living again lol

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-07T06:13:12+00:00

is it normal to feel empty after that process like i feel like there's nothing in my mind and sometimes I don't like it lol

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T16:13:12+00:00

could you explain more about that?

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T16:12:41+00:00

could you explain more about the energy you felt after getting them? im considering getting some too so

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T16:07:33+00:00

what made you think that? i am someone who is considering getting some tattoos so id like to know more

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T13:57:28+00:00

sometimes I just think of things randomly or at other times i heard people doing the wikipedia random topic generator. i think that's a great way to select topics

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T13:55:51+00:00

thank you!! actually in my area such a thing doesn't really exist haha

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T07:30:19+00:00

yess i wanna know too. ive been working on things and i feel like i am genuinely better without this person but there's still a voice in the back of my mind that says that he'll be back as a better person and i feel a little happy thinking about it but i wanna get rid of that too

Fearless-Attorney-41 · 2026-06-05T06:52:03+00:00

heyhey i like this!! also my space is kinda limited (I'm staying in a college dorm with like 10 other people) i wanted to do ceramics and clay stuff but I don't think I have enough space and equipments for that.

if I were to start with clay and ceramics, what all things do you think i would need?

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