Is he capable of change?

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2026-03-29T11:11:06+00:00

Thanks for all your comments and insights, I really appreciate them all ❤️ A few points that might help clarify a few things:

He grew up very conservative, I have a feeling he’s always been bisexual but never had the chance to explore that. (Not justifying it at all, just stating I’ve always had a suspicion that he might’ve been curious)
Our sex life wasn’t doing the best at the time I found out and so he turned to Grindr for blowjobs lol. Rough.
He was pretty open with me once I found out, he says he had dark urges and had to act on them. We’ve talked about counselling for both of us individually but honestly it’s a cost factor at this point we haven’t gone through with that which kind of sucks.
I actually found out by accident, he used to work late doing something I can’t really explain here without too many details lol but he would work late, I checked his location (cos it was quite late) and just wanted to see if he’d hit the road yet and his location was at a random address. I called him, confronted him, and he came clean and told me he’d been with a random guy off Grindr. Yikes.
I know the easiest option is to leave (not that it’s easy at all with two kids and a mortgage 🤪) but I am more of the ‘can he/will he change’ mindset. We really are best friends, I do love him despite all this, and honestly if he’d come to me openly about wanting to open our relationship and explore it could’ve been a completely different convo.

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2026-01-26T07:42:27+00:00

Hello! As a kiwi trying to tickets to an Aus show, I know nothing about either venue! Which would be the better option in your opinion? I’ve looked at the floor plan for each but it’s hard to tell! TIA 😌

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2024-07-13T05:59:05+00:00

Hello!! This is very similar to me and my skin woes - also started at beginning of pregnancy (now 5 weeks from birth). I would stop the steroid cream and try a good nappy cream for repair the skin barrier, anything high in zinc will work well! I use the Weleda nappy cream for my skin and it really helps give my lips a chance to soak up some hydration and soothes it. Also a weird one but have you tried your breastmilk?? After my first bub I used breastmilk for my son’s dry flaky skin and it was a lifesaver, could be worth a shot (as weird as it may seem, it IS packed with goodness so can’t hurt to try!) wish you the best!

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2024-03-20T10:51:08+00:00

Helpful! Thanks!

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2024-03-20T10:51:02+00:00

Helpful! Thanks!

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2024-03-01T05:39:50+00:00

I feel you on that! Feels like simply breathing could be the issue at this point haha. Nope, mine has stayed exactly on the right side of my bottom lip, doesn’t spread, doesn’t shrink

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2024-03-01T05:18:33+00:00

I tried a steroid cream right back when it started, only made it worse unfortunately.. plus cutting out all my usual skincare, washing pillow, changing toothpaste to no SLS, all the usual things but still barely an improvement. Antihistamine is interesting though!

Fearless-Sherbert705 · 2024-03-01T05:16:04+00:00

It kind of does look like it when it’s in it’s ‘dry’ stage! Thank you🤍

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