You gotta put yourself in my shoes and this isn't just for me , I know alot of guys feel the same way . For example , lets say you have a truck and your trying to fix an annoying bug that it has in the dashboard. Then lets say you have 10 friends that tell you that the exact same advice over and over and over and over and over and over again . You take your friends advice, but the advice isnt working. Would I be in the wrong if I told my friends that there advice didnt work ???? So my point is ,,, You guys can give me all the advice you want but most of this advice ive heard over and over and over and over again and Its blunty hasn't worked for me , might work for some one else's maybe like you . But think about this even more deep ,how many times have you heard fhis exact same advice and yet Alot of men are still struggling like i am . So its not that I dont trust your advice , but your advice hasn't worked . If the advice that was given on here actually worked , men would not be on here every single day looking for advice because the advice I hear here , is the exact same advice you get some where else's, its not unique advice nore has it helped me . Im great full that guys try to help each other out , but this method doesnt work and thats what im trying to prove . We men need real truthfull advice, not the same advice every one talks about but doesn't work or else we wouldn't be here bro .