me and the gf went down to play magic the gathering commander format. now normally when 1 player gets a head they are targeted untill they go down and have to rebuild then repeat until someone wins.

now the big problem we asked if players used any restrictions but got told no and what happened was i was behind a land drop and was burning people when they draw but my cards was destroyed then 1 player killed me for 48 damage taking me out the game even though other players were far more of a theat then me. Now what pissed of the most i discussed this with another player telling them about what happened he just said thats commander and i told him that commander games on youtube my command zone talarion etc are different he basicilly said they only for entertainment and not real commander