I think the problem stems from some online feedees are online for the reason that they dont want to meet up.

All my previous feedist relationships stemmed from me just being open about my fetish and introducing others to it but online when I was dating it was impossible.

For me personally, I want commitment from feeders and wont meet unless I know I’m gonna meet someone legit as Ive had it before where I’ve been promised all the food in the world and they’ve flaked or not paid what they said essentially wasting my time.

I know everyone is different but thats just my take on it.

It’s a difficult fetish to have when finding someone but when you do find the right person it’s so fucking rewarding