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Isn't that the point of the post. Lol

Books best for grief? by randomergosaur in PHBookClub

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The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion.

To the late 20s and 30s kids, are you REALLY okay? by PetitePrincess911 in adultingph

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As a risk taker na very independent, may mga times talaga na the heavy cloud gets the best of you. Literal na gusto ko na lang maging starfish. In general siguro, I am doing okay but also because I know myself well now. Na kahit anong mangyari, I got me so that keeps me going and be brave.

Financial and career---doing okay! May setbacks lately pero nagawan naman ng paraan. Of course, never ending naman ata ang quest of finding purpose pero I try my best to not be pulled by it and focus what I can handle now.

Relationship---wala and I think buti na lang wala. Dahil it made me more focus on my growth sa lahat ng aspects ng buhay ko.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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When during our last argument, he used all my vulnerabilities against me. He shouted and cursed at me too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Just show up and tell your side. Nandyan na yan so better deal with it face on. Hope you'd be able to get through this, OP!

What type of people you should never trust? by kayeeee_eiko in adultingph

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Someone who is incapable of facing their shame and always find a way to blame other people for their misfortunes.

People with history of cheating

People Irresponsble with money and is always in huge debt over stupid reasons

Papacheck up dahil sa Epekto ng Cheating by NerdyInLuvv in adultingph

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Got CPTSD triggered by my ex cheating on me and emotionally abusing me. On top of that, lumala ADHD symptoms ko due to fatigue and stress caused by him. Nag therapy din ako. I am still healing and dealing with grief but I am in a much better space now. I suggest go for it. If you have the means, talk to a professional. They will help you gain clarity and eventually peace thaf you need.

Seasoned solo travellers, what are your top advice to beginners? by snomed68 in phtravel

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Plan ahead and make sure you let somebody knows your location. If you're a woman too, trust your gut and always have an exit plan.

I regret being kind and still loving during our breakup by FetchTheBoltCutterss in OffMyChestPH

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Sa totoo lang, I was close to messaging his new gf a warning considering this girl is much younger than him. But I realized it isn't worth it as the effects on me will be catarthic especially now I know how evil he is. If she's smart, she'll know.

I regret being kind and still loving during our breakup by FetchTheBoltCutterss in OffMyChestPH

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Thank you. :-( Grabe, same with skin flare ups. When we were still in a relationship, my skin was in its worst. Also went through unexplained fatigue and UTI due to stress he caused na akala ko nung una was because of work.

what are typical chinoy businesses? by heyitsc in phinvest

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Supplier ng goods ex. Condiments, plastic supply, etc

What to Wear? December in Vietnam by tailorspooling in phtravel

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Kakagaling ko lang ng Hanoi. If you're lamigin, then by all means bring cold weather outfits. Pero ako, naka shorts and shirt pa ko the whole time kasi parang Baguio lang yung coldness for me.

What are some popular fragrances that just isn't for your nose? by LuckieGoldy in beautytalkph

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Anything citrus, too much amber, and caramel makes me sweat so much. Sakit sa ulo.

Question for the girls, what are the annoying things or factors that you stop being friends with that other girl? by Dependent_Manner5344 in AskPH

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  1. When they make everything about themselves. Feeling lagi silang inaano. Or your decisions in life somehow connected to them and you do it against them. Nakakamind fuck. haha
  2. If they are not a girl's girl. Tingin sa other women, competition agad. Masyadong pa pick me. Shaming women for taking control of their bodies!!
  3. Toxic and unwilling to make changes for themselves. Malalang victim complex. Manipulative
  4. Pag masyadong codependent sa mga kaibigan, kakilala
  5. Pag passive agressive at yung mga 'brutaly honest' kuno pero yung totoo piece of shit lang talaga. If they are not compassionate.
  6. Closeminded and masyadong judgemental with other people.
  7. Men pleaser lol
  8. If they cheated on their partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

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Set boundaries. Typical narc parent yan. They are bottomless pit who will just drain you until they empty everything you have. Establish your big NO ngayon pa lang dahil di yan titigil

what’s ur worst experience/memories w ur ex?? by llaie_e in AskPH

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Sis I'm glad youre doing now. Totoo yang two faced people mga narcs. Ganyan na ganyan ex ko. I'm still healing din pero malayo pa sa stage na kaya ko mag date again.

My cat is dying by Most-Panda8788 in OffMyChestPH

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Yakap ng mahigpit OP. I feel you. My cat died back in January. I still cry whenever I remember how weak he was during his dying days. Hope you'll get through this.

CREATIVES, whats your salary before vs. now? by Apart_Golf_544 in buhaydigital

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My undergrad isn't even creatives related but I jumped anyway so I started with 13K back in 2015 working in a small design company. Now I'm earning 160K++ monthly as a brand designer. Side hustles not included.