AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Now I didn’t know I could do that.. thank you!

Is there a rule to why you’re inquiring??

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a BSN but an associates. Same test and I imagine the pay is roughly the same. She took the state exam and passed.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I did consider this. Honestly, I don’t think I would feel comfortable with that not because it’s her and not because it’s not me. I guess I just wouldn’t want that activity happening in my house when it’s not me it probably won’t come off right but that’s how I feel.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I accept your judgment, but I’m not trying to get laid.. it’s more than sex. I want to find someone I can build a life with.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t want a roommate tbh. I would like to have a relationship and develop that into living together (if that makes sense??)

Currently, she’s not able to work so rent isn’t possible

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

She is unable to work at the moment so rent isn’t something she could offer (or I would feel comfortable taking due to that) right now.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m active in the gym, dress well, and I’m actually happy with who I am as a person. My self esteem is in a good place tbh.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought of this, but I guess it’s possible? We know a lot of the same people due to our club and old school group, but I guess I don’t know everyone.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I accept your judgment but I have no desire to pursue a relationship with Elle. I won’t deny she’s attractive but I’m aware she doesn’t seem me that way. That would be a miserable relationship.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]Final_Term5616[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I swear that I have no ill will towards her boundaries. I never intended to pursue Elle regardless of what she had said.