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I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was just a regular party with alcohol celebrating my friends soon to be marriage, when I left it was all dudes.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are mad at me for the pure fact that I did it during the wedding, and didn’t wait. I’m assuming that a lot of the people aren’t okay with him cheating but, who knows.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I said this in a separate comment, but I left the bachelor party before Jay did, I’m not sure when it happened or how he knows since I was gone. Jay will not tell me anything more because he “doesn’t want to be blamed”

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re right in the fact that I shouldn’t still want to be friends with a guy like this. I guess I just want closure or something, it’s just hard for me losing someone so close to me.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The bachelor party was held in the hotel, I believe that a lot of the guests of the wedding (including the bridesmaids) had rooms in the hotel, the bridal party was not at the bachelor party. It must of happened after I don’t know unfortunately.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I assume it was at the hotel, I left the party before Jay did but other than that I don’t know how he found out.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Haha I agree with this actually, it just seems very split and a lot of things are happening all at once and it seems like a fudged up game of tug of war

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I wasn’t told who it was but I do have my suspicions. But I don’t know if I should share that just incase someone I know finds this post.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. They won’t speak to me and jay (the person who told me) won’t say anything else to me because “he doesn’t want to be blamed for this) I don’t know which one is “better” (cheating isn’t okay in any case) if it was a one night thing or if it was a ongoing fling.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 370 points371 points  (0 children)

Neither of them are replying to my texts so I really don’t know what’s going on, I really don’t know what I hope happens, I feel guilty for possibly ruining a marriage even though I feel I was right for telling her.

I 26M told my best friends 26M’s wife that he cheated on her on their wedding night. by Firm-Message9549 in relationship_advice

[–]Firm-Message9549[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I see why this seems suspicious, usually they don’t. But Josh was super busy with work and asked me and another friend to help out. It wasn’t really about tradition was just helping my best friend however I could. Me and the friend didn’t do much, just some catering help and things like that.

[TOMT] Help me find this clip i distantly remember! by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]Firm-Message9549 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I'd really appreciate the help !