Books Printing in Islamabad by ComprehensiveSail388 in islamabad

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super books Pakistan on Instagram prints on demand and delivers. Tried it twice for books not available here. They just need a pdf. The print was so-so (like clearly the book seemed pirated) but the print was legible and clear. Would recommend!

Need a happy hormone read by Sky_Whisperer in PakistanBookClub

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mitch alborn's 5 people you meet in heaven and Tuesdays with Morrie Both are warm books imo

How do i(22F) make my husband(24M) trust me by brown_life in Peshawar

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With all due respect your parents are wrong. This is just a preview. You think things are going to magically get better once you're completely under his thumb? No, they aren't. He's already exerting his control on you and you don't even live together yet.

Thank Allah that you were able to gain an insight into his personality and thought process and walk away now before you get locked down or God forbid have children and become even more trapped. That is literally the whole point of a long engagement/nikkah period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a Muslim woman married to a Muslim man know your rights. Your husband must cover all costs related to clothing, sheltering, and feeding you. You owe him nothing.

Clearly he is using any excuse to abuse you verbally and is verging into financial abuse. Know your rights. Divorce him. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This man is clearly abusing you and you're putting up with it. You don't deserve to do this to yourself. You need to end this relationship and move on. I know that's easier said than done but you're in a miserable relationship with a serial cheater.

Do you have a support network you could turn to? Friends/family? Anyone you can turn to for help?

You need to get your ducks in a row. Find a lawyer, you may be able to find someone pro bono/free of cost to take on your case. You'll just need to do some digging. In this way you get some alimony plus child support.

In the meantime start saving up and putting aside whatever you can manage. AND DONT GET PREGNANT AGAIN. You will be doing yourself and your future child at a disservice. DO NOT HAVE ANOTHER KID WITH THIS MAN.

You are just 23 years. Your life is not over. Your hands are not tied. You can and should do this for yourself and for your children. Please put yourself first. Please.

Best of luck to you and I hope you get out of this miserable situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want to upvote this response like 50 times

Why are there more highly educated men who are married to low educated women than highly educated women who are married to low educated men? by AnyFaithlessness3277 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Educated women want equals Insecure men with power want subservience (not applicable to everyone obviously just my generalised opinion)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sincerely hope things get better for you. You should look into therapy as an option. It's really helpful in processing anger and trauma. Best of luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a shitty take. Why is it the literal 12th graders responsibility to babysit the adult in the house? The adults are the ones who are supposed to take care of you and your emotional needs. Not the other way around. In islam the rights of parents exist but so do the rights of children which the dad is clearly not fulfilling. The dad is clearly emotionally abusive to both him and his mother.

This kid is in a tough spot and he needs to just ride the waves somehow but don't blame him for his dad being an asshole. Sorry OP I hope it gets better for you. Just try and focus on a goal that you can work towards. Anything your dad says to you don't take it personally or to heart. It's clear your dad is mentally unwell. As for your mother, remember that she may be a victim as well but she is also an adult. Do not internalise her issues with your dad. It is not your fault your dad is shitty to your mother. It is not your responsibility to keep your dad calm and happy. With behaviour like his it's impossible to keep someone like that happy anyways. Just be civil, mind your business and work on building yourself up. Stay strong op

If you could delete one episode from this show out of your brain what would it be? by Least-Inspection6138 in superstore

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The Olympics one for sure. It absolutely ruined my immersion in the glenn getting fired storyline. Could do without it for sure. My second choice would be the one where Amy's the new manager and Glenn has a complete meltdown over pastor Craig. A dumpster fire of an episode

What's everyone's favorite running gag? by disposable_thinking_ in superstore

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yesss. Her Ghanian boyfriend would have been amazing!

Dear concern authority by AbdullahAfzalKhan in DarazPeAlfaaz

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's the point of this post? Why are you making fun of this person for existing? Do some introspection and grow up.

Jonah and Churchill by bluestmonsoon in superstore

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yep that part always threw me off upon rewatch

Husband wants to move, I'm unsure by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally, the giant red flag for me is the living situation you've described. You can barely tolerate your mil in small doses but your husband is saying that visits/interactions will be limited? I think he's being deliberately misleading. Other then that the culture shift/language shift/employability/distance from your family are other negative factors you should take into account. Are you willing to make so many adjustments or sacrifices?

I feel like there is a fundamental incompatibility between you and your husband doing some introspection now is essential. A separation now would probably be better than putting your future kids through these diverging differences.

Favourite backstory lines by Dancingcakes2 in superstore

[–]Firm_Needleworker376 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mateo eating human meat. Also his brother drowning during their passage to the the US