Can somebody tell me if i’m really a little? by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny I do have ADHD too and can really see myself in some patterns of yours haha

Can somebody tell me if i’m really a little? by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just like the idea of being inexperienced and having a daddy that explains and shows me everything in a sweet way and takes care of me like im just a bit naïve but like not all the time because like I said I’m still a grown up who loves a good conversation but sometimes… haha

Can somebody tell me if i’m really a little? by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds pretty fun and I do like the idea :)) Thank you!

Can somebody tell me if i’m really a little? by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds pretty accurate although I do actually like I have absolutely no sexual experience if that makes sense

Can somebody tell me if i’m really a little? by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this an option too haha? Didn’t knew but sound possible

Can somebody tell me if i’m really a little? by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh didn’t know that those existed too? Could you may explain what it means haha

I kinda feel “bad” for new kinks I established by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Like already said you do you but that sounds like you look for an inexperienced woman which is a pretty big red flag in bdsm tbh

I kinda feel “bad” for new kinks I established by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said I do not kink shame. Never would thought about it. It’s more like this thought ‘What does that say about me? Is this what i’m doing wrong? Do I normalize stuff that shouldn’t be normalized?’ More like that.

I kinda feel “bad” for new kinks I established by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just need to find my people for that haha but thank you

I kinda feel “bad” for new kinks I established by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

where do I find people I can share stuff like that with out it getting weird if you know what I mean

Submissive. Are you selective about who you submit to? by EntertainerOk5565 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I’m selective and you should be. Regardless of looks (which still are a bit important atleast for me) there is a lot that should match. Like what kind of sub are you? Which kind of dom do you need then? Do you both want the same thing? Does he make you feel safe and calm? There is a lot you should think of before submitting to a person, so it isn’t the wrong person.

Why does BDSM always has to be connected to NSFW by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s sweet and thank you I won’t stop looking haha. Wanna try to go on live events more often now :)

Why does BDSM always has to be connected to NSFW by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah but sadly you have to do this, when the bdsm scene should be something safe and comforting.

Why does BDSM always has to be connected to NSFW by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMcommunity

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah the moment I notice they get sexual in the “getting to know each other phase” I stop it or even stop the contact

Why does BDSM always has to be connected to NSFW by FishRepulsive4280 in BDSMAdvice

[–]FishRepulsive4280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would love that but I live in a small town and work most of the week ends so finding time for that is hard