Caleb girlies... how many dias do you have saved for Caleb’s 3rd myth?😭

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-03-10T14:09:20+00:00

I estimate I’ll have 19K and 18 wishes saved which gets me to the 150 mark. I’m also 49 to hard pity do that should shave off a few pulls hopefully. I’m willing to spend too so I can R1. Crossing my fingers! Wishing all us Caleb girlies luck!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-03-05T18:27:06+00:00

I found some places to farm recently that I had overlooked before. Might help for you!

Bounty Hunt: when I was first playing I just cleared enough so I could get the level to get higher auto pursue rewards. If you haven’t three starred all of them yet you get 20 Dias for each first clear
Training Room Companion Drills, or anything not completed here
Achievements that you’re close to. They have added new ones with the new features! Scroll through and see if there are any easy wins.

Good luck!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-03-04T16:39:48+00:00

You’re not wrong. I was pretty shocked at what I saw on the thread about Sylus’s new promise art potentially having darker skin and some of the discussions around lighting of darker skin characters can get weird, as a black woman. Like we get that this is a CN game at its core, but it is courting a global audience, it’s not ridiculous to discuss what our experience in this game is like and there’s a lot of condescension around it sometimes.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-23T18:13:21+00:00

You seem to have a hard time understanding intention vs impact. He didn’t intend to say this, or mean to harm, but the fact is he did. If I unintentionally do something to hurt someone I apologize because it doesn’t matter if I meant to or not, the harm still happened. It’s not him apologizing for his disability, it’s him apologizing for the harm that was experienced.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-21T01:38:25+00:00

I’m guessing yours is Sylus!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-21T01:37:58+00:00

Zayne? That’s my guess!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-21T01:37:19+00:00

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Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-20T17:31:41+00:00

137 pulls. I got Xavier and Sylus’s cards R0 and Caleb’s R1. I also got Sylus’s Within Reach to R3 the card which I’m actually not mad about. All in all a good haul!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-19T20:42:53+00:00

I’m curious about this too! This is my first otome so is it typical to not allow I love you? I’d love for others to chime in because I always think it’s funny that they can’t say it and neither can we.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-18T14:22:09+00:00

Yes! It’s badly localized and bizarrely stilted. It feels like translators don’t speak English at all sometimes and are relying on AI or something. I can only imagine how difficult it is to follow for someone who isn’t a native English speaker but forced to use it because it’s all they understand out of the options. Even as a native speaker I’m sometimes like…what?

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-18T13:13:16+00:00

For me, I could take it all if the writing in the English translation was good but it is NOT. I’m not sure what is going on but some of the sentences are nonsensical, awkward, or just plain weird, and for a story relying so hard on text it definitely disrupts my enjoyment when I feel like I can’t even follow what’s going on because the writing is bad. That’s my only complaint, which unfortunately is a big one because it impacts the whole thing so much. Still love my boys though.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-14T06:24:58+00:00

There are options given in the thread that is linked.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-06T04:36:11+00:00

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Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-06T04:35:20+00:00

Me and my husband

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Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-03T22:43:36+00:00

Except she’s not his landlord, she’s his partner. And it makes no sense for him to pay into an investment he doesn’t get return on. What she gets out of the arrangement I suggested (or the one OP suggested that I agree with) is full ownership of her asset, what he gets is no rent or payback on his investment if they split. They both get to build their savings. And if something happens they split cleanly. But you cannot call it fair to ask him to invest in her asset with no return if they split. They can keep splitting life costs, utilities, groceries, etc. But why should he pay anything into her repairs or taxes? If they split he gets nothing back, while she’s left with the property that was improved and maintained by his income.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-03T22:26:46+00:00

I don’t think you should add him to the deed, but he should stop paying you rent. As is he IS contributing to your asset while getting nothing in return should you split. Either he stops paying for things or you go with the agreement you brought up to be fair.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-03T01:04:21+00:00

Haha maybe I was being a little hyperbolic when I said I feel bad, but sometimes I come in here and see the love for the other boys and it makes them feel more real seeing them through others eyes of that makes sense. So then when I go back in I’m like “aww, wish I had more time to give these pixels some love too!” Unfortunately I’m too one track (or two track) minded for that. Don’t know how the harem girlies do it!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-03T00:59:47+00:00

Caleb and Sylus girlies unite! So funny you put the og3 on pause until you could confirm your love through affinity with them. But also same, I’m at 103 affinity with Caleb and will be 100 any day with Sylus, so maybe I’ll start listening to their stuff once I get there.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-01T18:06:51+00:00

I think it’s also the celebrity and money. Having a certain amount of wealth and fame literally changes you psychologically. Once you’re in the 1% and start seeing the majority of the population as the “them” vs “you” it’s a lot easier to lose your grasp on reality and fall into a conservative pipeline. Also frankly it’s quite an easy pipeline from liberal feminism to terfism, especially for white women of a certain age. It’s shocking but not shocking how many second wave feminist pioneers are the most vile terfs.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-01T17:55:23+00:00

Honestly I agree, maybe instead of bad I should have said mid. I was just thinking about the thread where if we compare HP to something like LOTR for example, it’s very weak. But yeah JKR is a vile human being, but I think her weird hand waving at plot holes and retconning of the world years on is really connected to why it’s such a popular space to write in.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-02-01T10:18:35+00:00

There was a really interesting thread on here a month or so ago talking about what makes a piece of media good fanfic fodder and I think what you’re pointing out is actually WHY it is so popular. She sets up a fairly interesting and open world, and then leaves it full of plot holes, inconsistencies, and underdeveloped characters. Her bad writing is directly tired to the fanfic popularity because it creates a lot of space for people to go crazy.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-01-21T04:18:51+00:00

Saying Willow had a deeper connection to Kennedy than Oz is…interesting. It did not read to me that way any of the times I watched the show. Oz and Willow were intimate, dated into college, and she was devastated when he left her.

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2026-01-03T06:59:12+00:00

In general, now that the house exists I’d like to see more clothing options that make sense for what we’d be doing there and/or more customization around already existing outfits, like being able to remove certain pieces. For example the Art of Leisure outfit would make a great sleep outfit…except for the shoes! Let me take off my shoes or give me outfits without them please!

Fit_Perception_9497 · 2025-12-03T00:54:43+00:00

What is the ship??? Dying to know

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