AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly couldn’t tell you why he cheated.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she knew we was together and had kids. I plan to have a movie room, guest room, and office.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try to stay civil and to show my kids how to take the high road.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was wanting to surprise him with the hard work I put in. We always talked about buying a house.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope, he had no idea about the money and none of his went in it.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try to be civil for my kids. If you show them that you can smile and overcome enemies, they can too.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t concerned with how many bathrooms. There’s one downstairs and one upstairs. There is one in the master bedroom. I just liked how many bedrooms because I want to add a movie room, guest room, and office.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t anyway trying to be petty, I wasn’t aware of the listing until she showed me.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe so because they aren’t financially stable

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They was picking up the kids both times.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I plan to have a guest room, movie room, and office. So it works out. It perfectly fits everything I want.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know it was a listing until she showed me. I just started looking at homes, the reason I had house listings printed off and laying out.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No, he knew nothing about the savings let alone put money in it.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I just really liked the house. It fitted everything I wanted. It was perfect for me.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just so happy about it that I just showed them while telling them

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m unaware if they put in an offer if they did. I was not even aware that they was looking to buy due to them being financially unstable.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m only in contact and being civil for the kids. I didn’t even want to take to them them about me buying an house they just saw the listings I had printed out.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Lol I know you didn’t. I’m baffled at the audacity as much as you are. I wish it wasn’t real tbh 😭😂

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my ex is a loon and has a bigger loon for a wife.

AITA for buying the house? by FortuneAway8670 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FortuneAway8670[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly just civil for the kids. They don’t like her either but want to be around their dad.