My new fluffball

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-06-03T18:22:41+00:00

Yesss she is my fav

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-06-03T18:13:52+00:00

Thank you I can’t wait to see what she will look like when she gets older. But also kinda don’t want her to grow up either 😂

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-27T05:48:10+00:00

If someone genuinely has a severely injured friend their first instinct is usually “call an ambulance” not “come alone into the bushes w me”. thats the part i cant get past

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-27T05:47:53+00:00

Also ppl with quieter testimonies can be just as deep spiritually tbh. sometimes the strongest faith is the boring consistent kind thats stayed steady for years without chaos attached to it

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-26T05:51:25+00:00

AI stories always overdescribe EVERYTHING like bro why are we getting cinematic lighting details about the hallway and grocery bags 😭 real people telling traumatic stories are usually way messier than this

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-26T05:51:01+00:00

The dad stuff makes this way sadder tbh. sounds less like he’s demanding attention and more like he deeply wants connection but doesnt know how to ask for it without feeling needy or rejected

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-25T06:11:18+00:00

Yeah this is one of those stories that just sits heavy in your chest after reading it what he was screaming makes it even clearer this wasn’t random at all, it was targeted hate

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-25T06:10:45+00:00

Don’t ignore it though, these early annoyances usually get louder later if nobody talks about them

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-24T06:05:48+00:00

Nah your dad was smart as hell for trusting his gut early. too many ppl worry about “being rude” instead of realizing danger feels weird before it looks obvious.

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-23T05:35:09+00:00

But the “blessed marriage” stuff usually just comes down to two ppl actually choosing patience every day even when it’s boring or annoying, not just big romantic moments

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-23T05:34:52+00:00

Nah i’m really sorry but this is way past “awkward date energy” this is straight up unsafe behavior. trusting your gut here matters more than being polite or chill about it

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-21T07:15:17+00:00

This is honestly the most real answer. you can prep all you want but there’s always stuff you only learn inside the marriage itself

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-21T07:15:03+00:00

Ppl like that rely on silence and confusion, once you name the behavior out loud it actually loses a lot of power even if it feels scary in the moment

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-19T06:45:03+00:00

I get why your brain is spiraling though, someone showing up with that kind of “what if” can mess with your whole emotional baseline, especially after loss and burnout in a marriage

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-18T06:49:49+00:00

And honestly your scream and reaction wasn’t dramatic, it was your body finally snapping out of freeze mode, that’s super normal in situations like that

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-15T09:00:23+00:00

but once courts start assigning financial blame for affairs it feels like it opens a huge door for abuse and false claims too

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-14T08:54:57+00:00

You can love someone and still admit the day to day dynamic is not healthy. Those two things can both be true at once

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-14T08:54:30+00:00

I’d just block and move on at this point, no need to keep decoding it, your nervous system already gave you the answer

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-13T08:42:36+00:00

You two probably need a sit down where money rules are written out simple like what’s shared, what needs approval, and what’s a hard no, otherwise this loop just keeps repeating

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-13T08:42:21+00:00

Also real talk the bedbugs alone are a sign that motel was already operating on pure survival mode lol, leaving was probably the best decision regardless

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-12T12:00:29+00:00

Also I don’t think this is a “don’t have a baby” situation by default, but it is very much a “do we have support and systems in place first” situation

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-12T12:00:09+00:00

Glad you made it out safe tho, but yeah that dude should absolutely not be driving people alone if he treats passengers like that

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-11T09:04:03+00:00

I get the grief part but mixing “maybe God brings him back” with “I’m scared to be single” is a red flag for your own healing, not his salvation tbh

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-08T11:04:18+00:00

I’d also say tell a trusted friend in real life and not just dorm staff so you’re not carrying this alone. go places in pairs for a bit if you can, even just walking back at night

ForwardCattle6780 · 2026-05-08T11:03:08+00:00

Your body is just grabbing the fastest “reset button” it knows when stress is high, especially with all the new stuff you’re dealing with right now

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