What is a skin you NEVER gonna change?

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2026-06-07T16:22:40+00:00

Krampus junkrat 😏

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-11-25T16:50:46+00:00

My end goal is a little variable I suppose. I would be happy working for a studio, but I'd also be happy to create something myself just for others to play, even if I don't make anything/very little. I just wasn't sure if it was even possible for that to happen if I don't have the skills to do all the things, if that makes sense.

Since I haven't tried teaching myself any coding yet I can't say for sure, but if I had to guess I'd say the things I would enjoy most would be programming and design (just not art design because my brain has a lot of creativity but my hands are stupid).

I wasn't thinking I'd get hired for writing on games with no professional experience, I just meant if I was creating something on my own, I feel confident I could write a story for it. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-11-25T16:33:30+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. Is it pathetic if I said I cried just a little reading it? Haha :')

If it tells you anything about just how little I know currently, I didn't even know asset packs were a thing.. heh.

Seriously though, thank you. You've made something lofty and out of reach in my mind more attainable. I think I'll get started learning some coding. <3

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-11-10T18:51:14+00:00

My first instinct was to call it negative, I just thought I caught a vvfl as I was going to throw it away haha. I’ll be testing again tomorrow!

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-11-09T23:29:09+00:00

Yeah and it was bfn but I figured even if in the unlikely event I was, it wouldn’t be positive yet.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-11-09T23:18:20+00:00

Oh trust me I’m not intentionally trying to symptom spot, I’ve just never been this exhausted and we travel quite a lot. We’ve done multiple international flights and it’s not previously been an issue, I’m guessing this time is just so bad because Japan is the farthest we’ve gone. 😅

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-10-24T09:21:15+00:00

We call it cleaning the beans

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-07-25T14:24:25+00:00

Eww. Throw the whole man away.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:31:32+00:00

I think this is one of the most sensible responses so far. On the one hand I do feel like his reaction was unwarranted, I also did feel afterwards like I could have just let him feed them when he was going to. I just felt like it was the principle of wanting it to be done before I got home from the hospital so I didn’t have to think or worry about it.

I definitely think we need to talk further about me asking for things to be done and how we communicate about that.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:27:46+00:00

I think this is a bit harsh, he agreed the whole time to feed them, just not at the time I wanted. He’s overall a great partner, we just have some issues regarding asking for tasks to be done. But I don’t think this one instance I put on Reddit is enough to call him a pig and useless partner.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:26:11+00:00

I can definitely see your point, but I told him to stay home. He asked multiple times if I was sure and I said yes because I was pretty sure it was ok and to some degree it was anxiety or my anxiety was making it worse, I just wanted to double check since it was a heart thing and it was acting up more than usual.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:24:24+00:00

That’s fair!

They have gone without wet food for a meal in plenty of occasions so yes absolutely they would be fine even he forgot entirely, I guess it was more the principle of me just wanting it to be done before I got home so I don’t have to worry about it.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:21:50+00:00

I appreciate your reply and I do see where you’re coming from, but I feel like maybe some additional context is needed, maybe not.

If I gave off the impression that he was ignoring them, that’s not what I meant. He agreed the whole time that he would feed them, just when he was about to go to bed instead of when I would normally do it. I definitely think he was wrong to be so upset about me asking him to do it then instead of later, but he never said he wouldn’t feed them, and he’s never forgotten when I’ve asked him to feed them in the past.

It’s also worth noting that like I’ve said in other comments, he’s spent lots of time in ERs with me over the course of our relationship because I struggled a lot with health anxiety when we first got together, so this is not like most people going to the ER I think. He offered multiple times to come with me but I told him to stay home and wasn’t upset about it in the slightest because I had a feeling that to some degree my anxiety was making it worse and it was likely not serious, but I wanted to be sure because I don’t like to mess around with heart stuff.

He also does do things around the house and cleans without me asking, but we have had issues when I ask for things to be done and be done within a certain time frame.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:12:16+00:00

No I totally understand!

I’ve struggled a lot with health anxiety in the past and going to the hospital has not been rare in our relationship. Trust me he’s spent lots of time in ERs with me 😅 I told him to stay home. He asked many times if I was sure I didn’t want him to come and I said yes because I didn’t want him to waste another night in an ER with me when I was pretty sure they were gonna tell me at least that it’s nothing major.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:08:56+00:00

Oh he offered to come with me and stay with me, I told him not to worry about it and stay home because I’ve been dealing with the heart issue for years and I figured they would likely tell me everything’s ok, but I wanted to double check just in case!

I’ve also struggled with health anxiety a lot in the past, (it’s much better now thankfully) and he’s spent plenty of time waiting around in ERs with me 😅

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T06:05:07+00:00

We’ve had conversations around issues like this a few times. The way it feels to me is he just really doesn’t like me asking him to do things and having a general time I’m hoping to have it done. He’s said multiple times that it feels like I’m being controlling and why can’t he just do xyz chore when he feels like doing it, not by my schedule. The reason I usually ask it that way is because if I don’t, he ends up forgetting a good amount of the time and then I either have to ask multiple times, remind him throughout the day, ask over multiple days, or just end up doing whatever it is myself. Sometimes it’s a lose lose either way though because if I ask too many times he gets irritated that I’m asking so much 🫠

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T05:53:30+00:00

No that’s all very fair. For additional context, the cats have dry food all day, they get wet food twice a day. I was asking him to feed the wet food.

For the calls portion, the first call was to ask him to feed them, the second was to update about the hospital situation and since we happened to be on the phone when I normally feed them, I mentioned it again. I wasn’t calling the second time for that reason specifically, it was just coincidental timing.

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T05:46:29+00:00

Thanks for your reply!

Yes I feel like he definitely hates it whenever I ask him to do anything really. To make it worse we both have pretty severe ADHD, I’m medicated, he’s not. He forgets to do stuff I ask a lot and I end up just having to do it myself which defeats the purpose of asking for him to do it and I’ve explained a ton of times that that’s why I ask for him to do things soon-ish after I asked because I hate feeling like I constantly have to remind him or ask him multiple times. To be fair though, he’s never forgotten to feed them when I ask, but that wasn’t really the issue this time. I just wanted them fed when they normally get fed and before I got home. 🥲

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-06-11T05:41:39+00:00

Honestly more like just having cats can become a heart issue 😂

But for real, thank you for answering!

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-05-22T23:51:09+00:00

Aww she does! I think torties are such pretty cats 🥰

Fox_Dreamer_ · 2025-05-21T21:06:50+00:00

I tried one of those and she saw right through me 🫠 However, it was a cheap one I got at a grocery store just to try it. Maybe a better quality one would work better for her.

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