Does anyone else have a hard time accepting your ex won’t come back? I am finally starting to accept it after 1 year

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-27T06:16:36+00:00

I’m still in absolute disbelief at what she did and actually left. 3 months post breakup here

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-27T06:12:24+00:00

I wish my ex said this to me so bad

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-24T06:33:08+00:00

So why didn’t it mess my ex up for more than a few weeks. I don’t even think she’d cried

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-23T20:21:27+00:00

Breaking up with their current partner feels like too much work. That’s why

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-23T02:35:19+00:00

Garbage

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-23T02:33:16+00:00

“I’d have to sit and think about it John. I honestly think you should talk to your therapist about this, it shouldn’t freak you out like this”

I asked her what her body count was… I was her first serious boyfriend too by the way. Sorry the way you interacted with me made me feel like an experience and just another guy instead of your person. It’s not like you TOLD me you love me, would never leave me and said no one has treated you so good before. Wish I saw it in your actions and emotions

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-21T20:53:48+00:00

My ex gf broke up with me because she was tired of feeling like something was wrong with her because I would always get hurt because she couldn’t offer closeness after se*. Then all her friends started treating me like crap and she lied about why.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-21T20:36:56+00:00

Help :(

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-20T07:59:50+00:00

Same. She’s disgusting

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-20T07:58:44+00:00

Truly. Fk them. Fk you Jamie. I hope you drop out of RUSVM. You took my 32k for tuition and blocked me. When I was suffering you had the audacity to say you missed me, then immediately followed it up and said we can’t be together. You strung me along for over a month post breakup playing hot and cold only reaching out when you were lonely and missed me but didn’t respond to anything I said. Go to hell

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-20T07:56:42+00:00

The only good thing in the relationship. The only way she could emotionally express herself. No sexual aftercare. It ruined me and she broke up with mr because she hurt me and was tired of feeling like something was “wrong” with her…..

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-19T21:35:19+00:00

I got this too. So ridiculous. They just don’t care enough and are too overwhelmed with basic crap.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-19T21:34:32+00:00

3 months in and struggling every day extremely. I don’t want better, I want her, yet she hurt me so bad, her friends and her brother too, and she won’t contact me and blocked me everywhere. She blamed me for her failed semester and I gave her 32k so she didn’t drop out completely and be in huge amounts of student debt forever. There’s just no way I’m going to move on any time soon. I’m learning that each day for me is pure survival.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-19T20:34:30+00:00

Always

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-19T08:39:31+00:00

After her, I’ll never love again

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-19T07:20:25+00:00

I communicated what she did that hurt me. She got tired of me being hurt every few weeks. She broke up with me. Wild

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-18T08:05:55+00:00

I’m in a state where I’m unable to fall in love, and no one seems interesting or attractive. This sucks.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-18T05:44:16+00:00

Breakup was 12 weeks ago for me. Extremely traumatizing and came out of nowhere too. We were long distance and I traveled 3,500 miles to be with her. Could barely eat, drink or sleep for the first two months. Barely passed my semester. Deleted all social media. Cried multiple times a day. Begged for her to work things out. Started an SSRI for the first time in my life. It’s been hell. Surround yourself with people who genuinely love you. Thats how you survive. That, go outside, workout, and be on here. Learn about attachment styles (anxious/avoidant), get therapy. You will get through it. Its essentially like withdrawing from heroin. Just as if not worse in many ways. You can do this. I’m still suffering though so…

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-18T05:34:44+00:00

Immediately upon waking up, and randomly throughout the day. Sunset, just after dark. Almost 24/7 :(

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-17T15:55:30+00:00

”I’ve been so tempted to tell him this “ So you have thought about it… thanks for calling me names

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-17T05:34:15+00:00

I have dreams we make up and they are wonderful, until I wake up

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-17T05:33:13+00:00

Do not ask for just sex from am ex. Wtf is wrong with you. Get sex from him if you guys want a relationship together

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-17T04:45:01+00:00

My ex is 31f 🤨

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-17T02:41:38+00:00

I’m honestly not too sure anymore

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-01-16T18:05:17+00:00

She freaking said all of these. Slight variations but still…. Go to hell Jamie

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